#thefromans

It takes time to know what you really want to be rather than following all the guidelines of what you are supposed to be. At a point in life every girl gets the idea, that you should never go out without makeup, you should always keep your legs shaved, you should never leave your house without a bra, you need to have a certain amount of shoes, clothes, makeup items etc and your partner will only love you if you keep up with maintaining yourself. But is all of that needed? The older you get the more you start to question all those rules. The more you realise, that it is okay if people see your real face and not the make upped version all the time. You see that sometimes there are more important things in life, then to fight against your body or face hair. You realise that you want to find someone who loves you for who you are and not who you try to pretend be. When you learn to question all the rules you think apply to you, especially those only applying because you were born as a woman, you will see how much more you can be.