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 Good morning, little one 🌅

So looking forward to more of these kind of shenanigans from last weekend to carry over into this weekend! It’s going to be amazing! 😬

🦊💕🐇

Anyone else planning a weekend getaway?

HI anon and thank you so much for the ask. There are quite a few things that I do verbally and physically to playfully embarrass him more then humiliate. 

One of them would be asking him a series of questions that would make him admit to what exactly he is wearing. It ends up being a series because, he always insist on answering the question in a round about way. Eventually, he ends up having no choice but to tell me what I want to hear. Which is, that he is wearing a diaper. 😲

I also, like to hold his dip open and down the length of my body before I put it on him. I then, talk about just how big it actually is! It looks exceptionally big compared to how small I am. This tends to create a beautiful mingle of reality between man and boi and what actually is taking place in this moment. The perspective also wills the insinuation of how much I truly accept and enjoy him as a man and a boi in one. This seems to make him quite red and even teeny tinier. He seems to forget all of his words in this moment. 

Another really great thing is making sure that when I am powdering him, I squirt  extra powder down the crevice of his backside. I then like to swipe it in an upward direction aggressively enough that it creates a billowy, puffy cloud of smoke. Sometimes, I will add some sound effects like, “Choo! Choo!’ That tends to get him every time. I’m not going to lie. It also gets me giggling. ☺️

My bunny is never short of pitty pats on his bottom or diaper checks. This is whether he is wearing or not. When he’s not, I’ll usually make a comment like.. “Where did your diaper go?” When he is wearing I’ll sometimes say, “There it is!” Both comments are usually followed by him saying, “Heeeyy” This is something that takes place both at home and in public. What better place to be reminded with just how little you are then in public. Am I right? 

Speaking of public... Usually, I’ll either pay for whatever we plan on spending money on that day or make him pay for his stuff with my money if we are buying little things for him. For instance, the teacher’s ruler that we just brought home. He carried it all around the store and all of the way up to the register. Upon reaching the register, I then opened my purse and handed him my card. All the while, the cashier standing right in front of us. That part is very important. I really wanted to hand him cash but I just didn’t have quite enough. Although, it all looks innocent enough to the person behind the register, Bunny just knowing what was going to take place with that ruler and having to buy it with mommy’s money, sent him on a whirlwind of emotions. Yes, I loved every minute of it. 

I also, hand swat him in public when needed. No, I don’t care who’s standing around. If he decides to run his hot mouth at me in an inappropriate manner, I’m going to be sure to knock his attitude right back down a couple of notches. I don’t tolerate disrespectful behavior. Especially in public! Understand, this isn’t how things are done 24/7 but this is how it’s done when the mood strikes. Pun intended. 

Another really great form of humiliation is stepping in front of my 6′ boi as a 5′2″ mama, opening his car door, having him get situated to then, fasten his seatbelt for him. Again, it’s even better if other people are around to witness it. I also get a little embarrassed by this one but it’s totally worth it! I think he would totally melt into the floor during these moments if it were physically possible. it just makes my day. 😏 

I know that there are a bunch more but honestly, treating Bunny little interweaves so much in our daily lives that I can’t think of them off of the top of my head. It’s literally like second nature for the most part. There are certainly times/days that I don’t give him that sort of attention but when the mood strikes, it’s a lot of little reminders throughout our adulting and his little days. It’s not often I baby or humiliate him for the entirety of the day though. Even if he’s wearing. I mean, sometimes, just wearing is reminder enough for him. Sometimes when wearing, he doesn’t get little at all. He’s just wearing them like they're just another option for underwear. There are also times when he’s wearing that I forget he’s wearing because he’s in grownup space and we just go on about our grownup business. Having all of these moments makes it feel perfectly balanced for us and it’s just how we both like it. 

Thank you again for the ask. I hope this gave you the insight that you were looking for and that you have a GREAT weekend. 😘

Come here cutie and let mommy hold you for a minute.

What a great day for antiquing with my babe! 🐇 had the pleasure of carrying his new friend all throughout the market. You could cut the feeling of excitement and embarrassment surrounding him with a knife. 😏

Here’s a fun way to smush your little’s stinky tush 🤣

Opening your little boi’s door and buckling their seatbelt in front of strangers can be quite embarrassing for them. 😏

Oooooo! Good set of questions! So clearly, anything that brings a person to feel as though they are in a lower position then what they’re true status is, is a form of humiliation. 

The level of humiliation for us vary’s from playful to more serious. It never reaches the level of feeling degraded or worthless. I mean, we have real fights that can lead to that feeling but never on a regular basis. We try to avoid such a low level whether being playful or serious. In fact. two of my least favorite words are, shut up and stupid. It would make me feel horrible if I said something that was taken so seriously that it affected his mental psyche in such a way. So, I never wish to make him feel unworthy or without confidence in his actions. I do however enjoy humiliating him to the level of speechlessness and smol like movement. 

Unless of course (where the actions are concerned)  he acts out in such a way that requires a real paddling. Even his public swats are just meant as an eye opener and it definitely works. Paddling is not just for fun for us but an actual tool for real situations when needed. Even in those incidences, he doesn’t feel like less of a person for being paddled but instead, feels calmer and released from what he was upset about to begin with. Sometimes, a true moment of clarity. 

Don’t get me wrong, if he ever asked me to talk to him like, he’s nothing more then a worthless piece of trash that doesn’t deserve the oxygen that he breathes. I’d be happy to do that for him. It’s not how we roll but I’d be more then happy to make him sleep on the bathroom floor and use him like a toilet when needed. All the while, telling him just how big of a loser he is and that he isn’t even worthy of being my bathroom mat. I’d also, remind him of just how blessed he is to even be in my presence.This is, as I wipe my waste on the tissue and then shove it in his mouth after use. I’d then, make him hold it there until it dissolves enough to be swallowed. Which, he would be required to do because that’s where toilet paper goes, down the toilet 🤷🏻‍♀️ But...that’s just not our thing. I’d be lying if I didn't think he would somewhat enjoy that treatment to a certain extent. But like I said, It’s just not how we roll. Who knows, maybe someday it will be.

So, I guess I draw that line of humiliation at the point where it is no longer bringing at least a bit of clarity or joy to both of us. Whatever that may mean for that time in our lives. 

For your second question...

Don’t we all need to be put in our place sometimes? I totally get big headed and stubborn. Especially, if I don’t like how I’m being talked to. I get super quick to run my mouth and to only hear what I want to hear. When I get to that point, Bunny has to work really hard to get me to see things from a rational point of view. All I see is red because of something that was said or how it said. I don’t get the message behind the voice. Occasionally, I act out to the point that it will later lead to a hand spanking. I find it rightfully so, very much needed and deserving. I never make a big fuss when things are calm and Bunny tells me what is about to take place. I just uncomfortably bend over as he has instructed and take my punishment the best I can. which is with a lot of wiggling, kicking and sliding off of his lap. haha 

Thank you soooo much for the ask and I hope you have a great weekend! 😘