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hmm, well idk about aro ace experiences being harder or worse than other mogai experiences. idk how to phrase it (if any of our followers could help me out with this that would be great) but i feel like saying that sort of trivialises the oppression that gay people face, as they face very public and often physical (which is not to say that aro ace people can not also experience violence) discrimination and oppression and saying that being aro ace is harder feels off to me ??? we both experience oppression in different ways idk, if any of our followers can pitch in i would really appreciate it.

but yeah, that sort of mindset can be really harmful. what helped me was keeping myself surrounded by aro ace positivity and stuff of that nature. i went through a period in which i had sort of stepped away from tumblr and aro ace safe spaces, i started to get into a really gross mindset in which i started really getting down on myself for being aro. however, as soon as i went back i immediately felt better.

read about aro ace characters, write about them, talk to other aro ace people, whatever makes you feel secure about your identity. if you want to, you could also confront whoevers saying this arophobia/acephobic stuff and see if you could can show them why what they're saying is harmful. alternatively, you could think of some wicked cool comebacks. you don't have to confront anyone if you don't want to though, especially if it makes you feel unsafe. if the other mods have any other suggestions on how to deal with stuff feel free to add more !!

and remember that its okay if every once and awhile you feel insecure, thats something that a lot of people experience and it doesn't mean that you're any weaker for it. remember that being aro ace is really cool and that you can send us an ask any time if you're feeling down. i wish you the best of luck and hope that things start looking up for you soon !!

The only other one I know of is this one, sadly. If anyone else knows of any others please tell me!

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Thanks a lot you sweetie!! :D

i love rose ;3 she is so much like me. she is a resourceful, brave and sweet woman with a great sense of humour. She was quick to adapt to strange events. She is not only brilliant, but also very observant, and often noticed things.Also she is a beautiful friendly funny and clever girl whose afriad of being like anybody else. She just want to be different and of course she knows what she wants. Rose is capable of great forgiveness and mercy, willing to forgive people even after the terrible things that they had done. She is adventure but also she always came back home because of her mother Jackie and her friends.

My favorite villains are the daleks *exterminate*

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I was tagged by shake-it-like-sherlock

A Question Thingy

1. Always post the rules.

2. answer the questions from the person who tagged you and make 11 new ones

3. tag 11 people and link them to your post

4. let them know you’ve tagged them

QUESTIONS:

1. If you could live anywhere, including other planets and dimensions, then where would you live? Oh geez, um, does the TARDIS count? With Ten? Probably, but in case it doesn't, I choose Sherlock London. It's an alternate universe of sorts, right?

2. Why did you choose the place in question 1? It's the TARDIS. With the Doctor. Or freakin' London. With Sherlock and John. Need I explain more?

3. What is your biggest fear/s People only pretending to like me.

4. Have you ever had to stay overnight in a hospital? I don't think so, but I've had to stay in one for the majority of a day.

5. If you could chose a different date for your birthday, what would you change it to? Well, right now it's Christmas Eve, which is pretty awesome, but it'd be nice to have a summer birthday, so I'll go with...July 24. Sure, why not.

6. What do you aspire to be? I've always wanted to be a writer or singer, but morally I just want to be someone people can easily trust.

7. If you could grant a wish for someone, who would it be and what would you grant them? My parents work very hard, so I'd probably grant them the wish of money so they could live out their lives nicely.

8. What was the last song you listened to? "Photographs and Memories" by Jim Croche.

9. What is your favorite thing about your personality? I think that I can be fairly confident around people I'm comfortable with, and be thus more fun to be around.

10. Do you have any special talents? Um, I really like singing, and have been in a few musicals, so that's something. 

11. Who was the last person you talked to? (irl or online) My dad.

NEW QUESTIONS:

1. What's your favorite book?

2. Who was the last new person you met, and where did you meet them?

3. If you could make yourself younger or older, would you?

4. What is the last TV show you watched?

5. Why did you join Tumblr?

6. If you could be a superhero, who would you choose?

7. What would you do if you won the lottery?

8. When was the last time you laughed your head off?

9. If you had 24 hours to live, what would you do?

10. How often do you listen to music?