It All Starts with Two Missing Kids
Iāve been following this rather crazy story for a few days now and I thought Iād share it with you. Just be warned before you read that this is all ongoing, so thereās a lot we donāt know. Iāll do my best to make it less confusing than it really is for you, and to set aside rumors from known facts.
Weāll start in November of 2019, when Kay and Larry Woodcock called police in Rexburg, Idaho, and asked them to do a welfare check on Joshua āJJā Vallow, whom they hadnāt heard from since late September. JJ is a 7 year old boy with special needs and although he was Kay and Larryās biological grandson, he had been adopted by Kayās brother Charles Vallow and his wife Lori. Charles had died in July 2019, so JJ was living with Lori and her new husband, Chad Daybell (more on that later, because itās one big piece of this puzzle).
When police arrived to Chad (51) and Loriās (46) house on November 26, JJ wasnāt there. They claimed that he was staying with a family friend in Arizona, but police soon found out that wasnāt true. They went back the next day with a search warrant, only to find that Lori and Chad had abruptly left town with an unknown destination.
If that wasnāt suspicious enough, authorities realized that JJ wasnāt the only kid missing. His older sister Tylee Ryan, who was Loriās 17 year old daughter, had also vanished and no one had seen or heard from her since September. Neither of the kids had been reported missing by anyone.
JJ and Tyleeās whereabouts remain unknown, and we donāt even know if theyāre alive. Rexburg police has openly said they āstronglyā believe they are in danger. In a press release from December 30, they said that witnesses claimed Lori and Chad had told them Tylee had died in 2018, which wasnāt true, and that Chad had told someone else that Lori had āno minor childrenā. Meanwhile, Lori and Chad, wherever they are, have lawyered up.Ā
While the missing children is undoubtedly the more pressing matter, itās only the tip of the iceberg in this case. Turns out that both Chad and Lori have quite a shady past, especially in relation to their previous spouses.Ā
Chad was married to a woman called Tammy (49), who was found dead in her home on October 19, 2019 (so a month after the kids went missing). At the time, her death was considered from natural causes, but now police consider it suspicious and have exhumed her body to perform an autopsy and testing. The results, if they have them, havenāt been released yet. Chad married Lori only two weeks after his wifeās death.
Lori, whoād been married four times before finding her fifth husband in Chad, was also a recent widow, but her husbandās death was way more violent than Tammyās. Charles Vallow and her had separated in early 2019 and their divorce was getting nasty. On July 11, 2019, Charles was shot to death by Loriās brother, Alex Cox, in Arizona (where Lori lived before moving to Rexburg). Alexās story was that Charles had showed up at the house, an argument had ensued and Charles had hit him with a baseball bat, so heād shot him in self defense. Alex (51) himself died of unknown causes on December 12, 2019, and his death is currently under investigation as well.
So here is where things get a bit muddier, since some people believe that all this is related to an alleged cult. Both Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow were very religious. Chad owns a publishing company called Spring Creek Book where he had self-published many of his books that talk about the end of times and near death experiences. He and Lori used to appear in podcasts from a media company called Preparing A People, which claims to help prepare people on Earth for the second coming of Christ, and itās connected to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The owners of said company issued a statement in December in which they distanced themselves from the couple.
According to the Woodcocks, Lori was a nice woman until she started getting more involved with this religious group in 2018, where she supposedly met Chad. When Charles Vallow filed the divorce papers, he made some very shocking claims about Lori, saying that she wasĀ āobsessive about near death experiences and spiritual visionsā, that she claimed to beĀ āeternally married to the prophet Moroniā from the Book of Mormon and that she had livedĀ ānumerous lives on numerous planetsā. The document from February 2019 says:Ā ā(Lori)Ā informed (Charles) that she is a translated being who cannot taste death sent by God to lead the 144,000 into the Millennium. She is receiving spiritual revelations and visions to help her gather and prepare those chosen to live in the New Jerusalem after the Great War as prophesied in the book of Revelationsā. Charles also claimed that Lori said she had been assigned by God toĀ ācarry out the work of the 144,000 at Christās second coming in July 2020ā³ and that if he got in her way she would kill him, and that had an angel who would help her dispose of his body. And as we know, Charles was dead only 5 months later.
There are reports that Lori left Charles because he was cheating on her during his business trips. One police report seems to believe that Charles was the most suspicious of the two, and you can read about it here. So I guess we need to keep our minds open regarding this part of the story.
To add a little to the weirdness, a man called Brandon Boudreaux was married to Loriās niece and claims she abruptly asked for divorce after she started spending time with Loriās religious group. Then, in October 2, 2019, Brandon was shot at by some unknown assailant while he was driving a car registered in Loriās name. The bullet missed him, but Brandon is convinced that itās connected to this alleged cult (which, to be fair, hasnāt been officially confirmed by anyone).
Tyleeās dad, Joseph Ryan, who was Loriās third husband, died in 2018 from a heart attack.
So far no charges have been pressed against Chad and Lori, who remain uncooperative with the investigation and refusing to reveal where her kids are. Their lawer issued a statement saying:Ā āChad Daybell was a loving husband and has the support of his children in this matter. Lori (Vallow) Daybell is a devoted mother and resents assertions to the contrary. We look forward to addressing the allegations once they have moved beyond speculation and rumorā.
Authorities have located Lori and Chad in Hawaii. The children are not with them and thereās no evidence they were ever in Hawaii either, and the couple has again refused to tell police where they are. They have been given a child protection order, which requires Lori to physically produce Tylee and JJ to the Idaho Department of Health and Welfare in Rexburg or to the Rexburg Police within five days, otherwise she might be subject to civil or criminal contempt of court.
The deadline passed, Tylee and JJās whereabouts are still unknown. Weāve learned a few things, though:
- In August 2019, about a month after Charles Vallow was murdered and shortly before Lori and her new husband moved from Arizona, where she lived with her kids, to Idaho, she gave away JJās service dog, even though he was vital for her sonās treatment. She tried to sell the dog, Bailey, first for 2.500, but ended up telling Baileyās trainer to take him (x).
- Tyleeās cellphone was found in her motherās possession in Hawaii. According to several sources, the phone has been used since Tylee was last seen in September, but a text sent to a friend didnāt sound like her (x). Her older brother Colby also got texts from Tylee until October, but would never be able to talk on the phone with him when he tried. Colby also found Tyleeās texting style back then different from usual (x).
- Between October and November 2019, Lori put all her kidsā belongings in a storing unit in Idaho (x).
- When Charles Vallow was murdered by her own brother, Lori told the news to his adult sons from a previous relationship by text, telling them only that their father had died and kept avoiding explaining how exactly he died (x).
So far no arrests have been made, despite Loriās refusal to comply with a court order. Police are likely working on gathering enough evidence to be able to charge her with something.
- Article Two Children are MissingĀ from the Washington Post.
- A Timeline and Key Players from the Case (note that Charles Vallowās date of death is wrong here)
- Charles allegations against Lori.
- Police comment on Tammy Daybellās deathĀ and Loriās older son begs her to come home.
- Policeās statement saying they believe the kids are in danger and that Lori knows where they are.