#sybme

Of course. I need to really remind everyone of this. Parenting can be something that I've found to be very divisive. The fierce love we have for our kids makes our brain freeze and go on the defence. Just because I've done xyz, doesn't mean other's experience is invalid or not as good. Please note that whatever I did in my pregnancy and parenting, I've done what I believed was best at the time, within limits of my resources and my mental health. That's all I believe parents can do. Just their best at that given time with what you have. I'd love to know what others did differently, and how it works for them :)