#super oblivious

Real Live: people send out signals to each other. Whether these are conscious signals or not, they are made. When one person has romantic feelings for another, there are always signs. When these signs are recognized by the person they are meant for, a new relationship often forms.

Kdrama: just as in real life, kdramas are full of subconscious signals that people send to the people they are attracted too. Sometimes it is the gaze that lasts too long or it is the inadvertent touch that causes needless over-explaining, but the signs are always there. The problem in kdramas is that the recipient of these signals is always overtly oblivious to their existence. It’s usually the female characters who are oblivious to the romantic feelings of the men around. Perhaps these girls have such low self-esteem that they can’t imagine the men loving them. Or, maybe the guys just suck at getting their point across. Either way, if you find yourself in love with a kdrama female then you better tell her to her face. She won’t realize it otherwise. Not only will she not realize that you love her, but if you don't act fast then she will fall in love with someone else. Once she falls for someone else you will be banished to the friend zone forever. To be honest, if you are a man in a kdrama that already knows he is in love with the female lead, then you aren't the male lead and should just give up now.