β» Any advice on improving Tumblr RP experience?
never ever give into peer pressure when it comes to curating aesthetic or adapting to a certain writing style if it's not truly something that appeals to you. don't do smth everyone else is just bc everyone else is. don't use icons if you don't want to. don't have an fc if you don't want to. often, our opinions on things like this is what helps you stand out and become memorable; we as authors are always looking to understand our own personal signatures, and if you do some quiet discovery work around why you have certain opinions around these things, it can often pave the way to developing a unique POV or style choice all your own !! always discover / have a clear sense of what is UNIQUE about YOUR tastes and style and lean into it as much as you can.
if you want to build rp dynamics that last -- certainly take as much time as you need to churn out a reply, but try your best to see the thread goes through to a satisfying conclusion, esp if it's a plotted dynamic ! my rule of thumb is like ... ask yourself is the scene truly over? do we have anything else to say? is my partner still feeling like they're wondering what my character would've done after the latest reply? etc. etc.
i know we're all busy, myself included, but the most important thing i can say possibly is, with the time you have, read and re-read ppl's character pages. read their lore posts. ask questions. you don't have to remember everything. just be present with the time you have. i don't think anyone expects their partner to be an expert on their character, but consideration in this aspect goes a long way to developing rp partnerships that last. the realization moment many writers have when they realize someone wants to write or plot with them, but hasn't put any effort into knowing a basic fact abt their character, even verses that are available, is super disheartening. rp is collaborative. it takes time and effort and consideration! this isn't to say that things can't be kept casual, but if you want to build LONG-term partnerships and truly have that feeling we all loved abt 2012-2016 rp, it's gotta be this way.
more on the collaboration aspect -- rp is a healthy balance between writing abt your character but also giving your partner something to get inspired by beyond that -- in your reply, a good rule of thumb is to talk abt their character, their impression, their lore, incorporate pieces you read in their carrd or info pages into the writing. or build atmosphere that can give their character something to think about and help propel the story along with you. both of you should be working around this idea to inspire yourself and build your momentum every reply but also inspire THEM and help them build THEIR momentum too. empathy skills go a long way here !! overall, it helps YOU develop the dynamic in a very organic way, while also getting the rewarding satisfaction of your partner being excited and happy and feeling understood and known and ENTERTAINED. a big part of why i like rp so much is the leo moon in me, the fact that i get the opportunity to entertain the partner. tap into your inner bard or comedian or other-storyteller, see the joy in entertaining others, and the actions to make that happen will follow !!