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Only you can change you. You cannot change someone else, and someone else cannot change you. Change is an internal choice that starts with each individual. There’s an old joke: “How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?” Answer: “Only one, but the light bulb has to want to change.” Instead of trying to change other people so that they act like us, we should look to change ourselves so that other people’s behaviors don’t bother us. You cannot change anyone other than yourself, and you can only change yourself if you want to change.

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Be respectful of others. If you are going to someone else’s house, try to respect their rules. If they want you to take off your shoes, then take off your shoes. The same thing holds true if you are visiting another country. Rather than expecting everyone to speak English to you, try and learn the …

Keep things in balance. Do things in moderation, whether it’s school, work, or play. It is possible to study too much, work too much, or play too much. All of these lead to undesirable consequences. If you feel that you are out of balance, ask someone for help or advice. A balanced life is a …

Don’t guess, ask. Take a poll. They’re not only fun but amazingly informative on almost any subject. Use Messenger or Facebook or, if you are really feeling brave, poll people in person. People love to share their opinions and you’ll learn so much from simple questions. Coke or Pepsi? Favourite Color?

Resentment is envy’s equally ugly cousin. If you feel like you’ve been overlooked or unappreciated, do something about it other than whining or complaining. Quit suffering from victimitis! If you feel that you are in a toxic situation surrounded by toxic people, get out. You have the power to create situations that will allow you …