The Saga of B
[ in a kik group for disordered littles ]
So there's this girl, we'll call her B, who was talking about Easter Bunnies and stuff. I, having recently received a new stuffie from my daddy that happened to be a bunny, decided to share a picture of said bunny.
B freaked out, started demanding to see more pictures of him and even asked me to make a kik account for the stuffie so she can be friends with him. When I said no, she then went on about how upset that made her. I was uncomfortable for many reasons, the main one being these are my stuffies. MY family. She then started asking about my other stuffies, asking to see them and asking if they're all friends that talk to each other. When I mentioned my tiniest one, an independent sloth named Gigantor, the conversation went as follows:
B: "Can you please try and get him to talk to the other animals? There all family." Me: "I'm not gonna force my independent baby to socialize. He already stated his feeling on it, let him be edgy." B: "That just really upsets me. Their all family ):" Me: "Yeah, but that doesn't mean they all HAVE to talk to each other."
If they aren't part of your stuffie family, then you cannot dictate how the dynamic is supposed to go. She kept asking me if any stuffie I mentioned had met my bunny, to which I started to get very irritated. After explaining again how my dynamic worked, she then asked if I could make a video of them talking to each other, with PLEASE all in caps. I told her no, she asked why. I said no again, and then she asked if they can ever hear them talking. I said no. "It's okay, I'm just really upset by that." I explained AGAIN that they are my stuffies. I don't have to share everything about them, especially when I'm not in little space.
B: "Can I still be their friend?" Me: "I'll discuss it with them." Me, after a little bit: "So after discussing it we've decided to say no - nothing against you but they don't feel comfortable being friends with strangers. I hope you understand."
To which she started doing that sad "..." and stutter typing, which also annoyed me - but then she praised me on raising them right and promoted me? Well, the other admin was pretty irritated with B on that. There was a nice little lecture for B about how she can’t just randomly admin someone, especially for silly reasons like that.. but B kept saying, “Stuffies are a legitimate reason! She’s the protector of animals and raised her stuffies right!” There was no reasoning or talking logically to her. She’s either legit that immature, trolling, or just in little space all the time.
After that spiel, she admined someone for liking cheese and we had to make a new group because she wasn’t gonna leave / return to be unadmined - she legit broke so many rules of being an admin in that group.
I want to clarify something - my stuffies don’t talk. Not in little space, not in big space. For me, they’re just stuffies (that I love very much). Sure, I’ll talk to them but only when I’ve legit got no one else to talk to and I’m anxious.
