Wow okay so  I'm talking about spending the night w/ my friend and my gran constantly misgenders them?? I'm very tired of her doing it especially when I've told her about it so I snap and tell her if she can't use the right pronouns then just use my friend's name and don't bother w/ pronouns  and she got mad and won't talk to me, except to snap when I offered to help my bro w/ hw "no it's fine, i have to learn my pronouns"