#stopreacting

Saying “yes” while your body says “no” is not kindness. You’re allowed to pause. You’re allowed to ask for time. You’re allowed to choose you.

People-pleasing is a fear pattern, not your personality. Awareness is the switch.

If this feels true, reblog it forward

.After posting this brilliant funny video, poor Emma was met with so much hate and ignorance over something so small. I am surprised at how so many people just overlooked the comment section and her clearly saying:

- “before I rant I want to say this is NOT about TheFineBrothers” and:  - “there are like entire channels of people just playing music videos NOT EVEN SHOWING THE MUSIC VIDEO, THEY’RE JUST REACTING TO IT, JUST SITTING THERE LIKE..” *nodding head*

I highlighted and capitalised where I feel Emma can not give a clearer meaning and explanation to what it is she is ranting about!

Emma was NOT talking about the ACTUAL react channels, who not only communicate with the audience, but show the thing they are reacting too, and don’t sit there, not looking at the camera, just looking at the screen and every 5 min saying “yeah this was good” or “I like this”, real react channels TALK, they don’t say 5 words, and then end the video, they go into detail about what they like/dislike, and actually look alive!

The people Emma was referring too here are people who photoshop an awesome thumbnail too snare people in and watch their video, boosting their watch count, making their videos show first in searches and making them seem popular and “legit” these people are just annoying and assholes.