#std risk

Oh yes, the famous bbbj vs cbj debate. Scroll through @asiansiren blog she has a post about it. And also read girl’s comments. In a nutshell, it’s totally up to you.

On a case by case basis for me. Most of the time I do bbbj. I try to avoid doing a blowjob altogether if I can get away with it and give a handjob. I’ve been watching a lot of porn on how to do handjobs and honestly, men like it a lot.

Most times I’m dealing with drunk men unable to get hard enough to penetrate me, so blowjob is kind of the only thing left and they want it.

It’s the risk that I’m taking.

I did cbj with my online clients. Freestyling clients usually get bbbj or no bj at all unless they ask for it. Technically, I can always say no. And if I have serious doubts about him being a repeat client, I just don’t do it.

Bbbj is a risk but definitely less of a risk compared to other forms of unprotected sex.

From WebMD :

Several sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, HPV, and viral hepatitis can be passed on through oral sex."Oral sex is not safe sex," says Terri Warren, RN, owner of Westover Heights Clinic in Portland, Ore., a private clinic specializing in STDs. "It's safer sex, but it's definitely not safe sex." The risks depend on a lot of different things, including how many sexual partners you have, your gender, and what particular oral sex acts you engage in”.

HPV is linked to throat cancer.

Welcome to Advanced Sex Ed. Put on your smarty pants because we’re kicking things up a notch with some higher-level sexual learnin’.

Advanced sex-ed: Understanding Your STD Risk

We get a lot of questions that look something like, “I did XYZ, what are the chances that I have an STD?” And the truth is, we can’t give anyone their chances of getting an STD because risk is complicated.

When it comes to STDs, some behaviors have greater risk than others. For instance, sharing needles with another person is extremely risky because the needle goes right into someone else’s body, picks up any viruses or bacteria, and then puts it right into the next person using the needle. That makes it VERY easy for STDs (especially ones that live in the bloodstream, like HIV) to spread. Other high risk activities include unprotected anal and vaginal sex. And depending on the STD, unprotected oral sex can be pretty high risk, too.  

The truth is, if you have anal, oral, or vaginal sex, there’s always a chance you can get or give an STD. But there are things you can do to turn high risk sex into low risk sex, like using condoms and/or dental dams every single time you have anal, vaginal, or oral sex.

Another way to keep your risk in check is to get tested for STDs regularly. Be honest with your nurse or doctor about the kinds of sex you have and whether you use condoms or dental dams. It’ll help them figure out which STDs you should get tested for, and how often you should come in to get tested. It might seem awkward to talk about, but they’ve heard it all and they’re there to keep you healthy. Getting tested regularly for STDs will help you stay healthy, and it’s not an automatic part of a check up, so make sure to ask for testing.

And if you’re living with a viral STD like HIV or herpes, staying on top of your treatment regimen will keep you healthy and lower your partners’ risk of infection as well.

Want to learn more? We’ve got you covered.