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Stop Blaming and start growing.
Have you even seen someone blaming others for their own loss? Their description to support their blame seems that realistic to proof it true. Well, what do you think ? Is someone really responsible for their loss?
Sometime the blame might be genuine but in almost cases, it’s no, a big NO. Nobody can ever be responsible for what you lost. It’s no one but only we ourselves who is responsible for our deed. If you are on top, it means you have pushed yourself up, no one else. On the other hand, if you are in ditch, again it’s you who is responsible for your pathetic situation.
If you don’t like anything, just change it, but never blame.
Someone has well said “If you don’t like anything, just change it, but never blame”. It means choosing to change thing against you is preferred then blaming. If you are ample powerful to change it, then change, and if you not, it means you are not in that position to blame it. It simply emphasis the concept of “ stop blaming and start growing”.
Blaming someone else for your bad conditions seems quite easy. But think it over, blaming others can help you to handle the situation? Of course NO. Blaming someone is just a fake as well temporary solution for the long term problem.
If you succeed to deliver fake description, people will accept that it’s really someone else who is responsible for your condition. But what if the same situation came into existence again? How many times you will make explanations to protect yourself? Even a time will come when people will stop trusting your word and everything will become worst for you than before.
Regardless of what they really are, they rigorously make flaw comments over other. They never try to realise who really is responsible for the unfavourable condition that they are passing through and just keep on blaming others. But the real fact is, blaming others never have helped anyone. It’s always a wrong choice and exactly reverses of the concept of “ Stop Blaming and start growing ”.
Well, on one hand, if blaming is not the solution, BLAMING IS STILL A SOLUTION, KEEP BLAMING. But to whom you should blame?
BLAMING IS STILL A SOLUTION, KEEP BLAMING. But to whom you should blame?
Yes dear, you read it correct. Blaming is perfect solution for everyone, but only if done for themselves by themselves. Rather than blaming others, blame yourself. And remember blaming yourself doesn’t mean to really blame, blaming is something informal, it means to take the responsibility and start working for it.
May God never do, but just imagine, if one got failed in exam and he blamed his teachers or trainers for this. Again he will appear in exam and if his focus is still on blaming his teachers, definitely he will fail again by sure. Because passing exam is all about how much you studied and not even a single percent about blaming. On the other hand, rather than blaming teachers, he realised that only he is responsible for where he is now and started to study hard. What will happen? Could he fail again? Obviously NO. And it’s how blaming yourself works.
If you have a overlook and try to analyze the things, you will find that there is a hidden relation between stop blaming and start growing. The more you will focus on self improvement rather than blaming others, the more quickly you will grow.
Stop Blaming and Start Growing.