Let’s talk about standards...
How do we know exactly if our standards are too high, or too low? Do we settle for the first one we’re attracted to go from there? Ideally, that’s a negative, but for some of us, that’s exactly what has happened. But that circles back to the main question, how do we know? You can make a check list, but 10-1 you’re never going to find someone who checks every single box. So do you just settle? No. Never settle! In a good enough relationship (I use the word enough, very loosely), people have high standards for how they’re treated. Not everyone is going to meet those standards. After settling twice in my adult life, my advice, never settle for anything less than you deserve. Treat your other half the way you want your son or daughter to be treated. Keeping that mindset will take you further. I promise.
