#st.asks

tobirama senju

you had to prepare a week in advance, just to mentally prepare yourself.

cause lets be honest, having to sit down with someone and come out to them is nerve-wracking enough but when it’s someone like tobirama? it can be even more so

when it finally comes down to it, you tell him you have something important to say. hearing you say that made him a tiny bit nervous. internally of course.

he thought he did something wrong lol

either way, sitting down and talking to him about it was a lot easier than you expected. he sat through it all carefully listening to your words and taking it all in.

he waited till you were finished and by then you could tell he was a little confused. he asked simple questions like,

“what does it mean to be trans” (i'm sure he’s met a few trans people in his life but i doubt he fully grasps the concept lol)

in the end, the best way to put is that tobirama doesn’t really care. (a harsh way to put it ik)

a better way of saying it is, his feelings for you aren't going to change, no matter your gender. he’ll still love you the same.

if you come to him with any problems you might be having, like you’re feeling very dysphoric that day, he’ll try his best to help in any way you can.

you want to cut your hair shorter? ....he sucks at cutting hair, he’ll probably get hashirama to do it for you lol

feeling bad about your chest? he’ll try to get you a binder.

someone’s giving you shit or a hard time? he’s gonna step up with his incredibly intimidating presence and force the person to back off

either way, tobirama is generally accepting of you. even if he doesn’t completely understand at first, he’ll make the effort for you :)