#spread kindness

It's dangerous to go alone, take this.

Healing potions ✨

1. You are someone’s dream girl exactly the way you are right now.

We put so much emphasis on growth and getting to that “next best place”, which is fine, but we always forget that we deserve self-love as we are right now. It does not mean that you aren’t at your “best” physically and/or mentally that you aren’t deserving of love, kindness, and respect.

2. Perspective is everything

Stop stressing over that one bad grade you received at school. In ten years, you won’t even remember what teacher gave it to you. Focus your energy on things that’ll have lasting impacts. When you look back on your life, you want to see the beauty of it, not the anguish.

3. Growth isn’t linear

Don’t blame yourself for messing up. We aren’t perfect and we are bound to mess up every once in a while. Learn from your mistakes, and try to not repeat them. And if you do, that’s okay, there’s always another time. Growth has no time limit.

4. You are not a bad person

If you are sitting here constantly asking yourself if you are a bad person or underserving of love, I’m here to tell you one thing: bad people don’t worry about whether they are perceived as “good” or “bad”. Give yourself grace, and stop letting your overthinking consume you.

So much love,

1. i write smut because i want to.

2. i simply am just not a christian, im an atheist.

3. i don’t care if you like what i wrote or not, don’t like, don’t read

i’m kinda exhausted of coming back, excited to answer all my moots after a long days of work, and then being met with 12 anons wishing me harm… i support what i support.

obviously all my work is fictional, yes they do include real people (except for jjk obvs), but once again it’s fiction.

it’s not your place to tell me to find god, that i am sent from the devil himself, or that i will go to eternal hell because i don’t believe in him.

before i say anything, i’d like to preface this by saying i don’t care what you believe in or support, does it change my view of you a little bit? of course. but you have your beliefs and i have mines, and that’s perfectly fine!

i believe in science, and if science doesn’t have all the answers then i’m okay with that, i don’t need to know everything. i’m okay with having questions that don’t need answers, and that’s that.

telling me kill myself or wishing harm on me, my friends, family, or even my moots here on tumblr, is completely unacceptable and disgusting. your words mean something.

every time i hop on here, and see all the nice comments and tags from my mutuals, it honestly makes my day a bit better. but when i see that shit instead, it makes me sad. your words have impact, positive or negative.

please think twice before sending in things like that. i am really hurt by just how many threats and such were in my inbox.