I am not a full time, always on the hunt for a sugar daddy. But with me being a mom, I dont have time to really freestyle so, I still dabble around on CL. Anyway, I posted an ad last Saturday, got a few responses (garbage) but one I replied back to because of the mention of the word generous. He did say he liked fuller figured women and asked in a not so crude way about my chest size. 61, married (aren't they all), owns an insurance agency. He asked if we could meet for lunch on Wednesday ( I have a regular 9-6) and if I could wear a low cut top. I humored the old man. We got into conversation and talked about my ad and responses And why I made sure he was okay with me being black and plus sized. 1. Many men dont pay attention to details. So I always ask again before sending a photo out. 2. Not every one likes black women, especially plus sized black women. And the only time they like black women is when they are light skinned and thick and fit. So I am an acquired taste and that's okay. I also let him know (in gentle words) that I am the shit and dont take no mess. Of course, his generous is on Splenda level. But I smiled and laughed and listened. He was a gentleman. Walked me to my car. And there I told him that even if things dont go Toma physical level, that anytime he needed a pretty girl to keep him company, please let Me know. Gave him a hug, peck on the cheek... And then he gave me 50.00. It's small BUT if I can make 50.00 for an hour lunch while wearing a low cut shirt??? I'm for it.