Spider man knows Loganās birthday by heart after that one time Logan invited (tricked) him into having a drink with him for his bday. Genuinely that little piece of knowledge makes me insane. They are just the sweetest friends ever.
The fact that after the annual sabertooth kills Loganās loved ones while torturing him bday tradition, Logan chooses to spend his time with Spider-Man and not his x-men family because Peterās the only person who TRULY has no doubt that Loganās a good guy just sends me over the moon. Logan knows that the x-men are aware of his violence and ability to kill. Sometimes even kill people who may not fully have it coming, sometimes they may even doubt Logan, but family accepts flaws. The difference though, is that Peter, has zero doubt in his mind that Logan would ever do something that doesnāt align with being a good guy. I donāt think itās his lack of knowing Logan either, I think if Peter knew (or maybe even knows) of some of Loganās more morally grey or wrong actions, Peter would know it was in a state of Logan not being himself. This guy has zero doubt that Logan would ever be bad, not even slightly, even when he starts bar fights and nearly takes a guys head off after shooting him, Peter knows Logan would never really do it, sure he may step in to create some more space, but Peterās just got this understanding of his characters morals I donāt think anyone comes close to. Thereās a lot of judgement or conspiracy on Loganās morals from others but Peterās never got a doubt in his mind that Wolverines morals arenāt ever anything less than a good superheroās morals.
Jeez I think Iām repeating myself and rambling but I just adore how these two work around each other! Sorry for the weird extra wordy rant on these two and their tradition. I just find it so endearing that Peter every year without fail meets with Logan for his birthday, the guy doesnāt even drink :,( <\3 no reminder needed, he literally saves the date and Logan looks forward to it!
Note: I ām assuming the end of sabertooths traditional āIām killing all of your friends and family and torturing you on your birthdayā thing is over since in the two comics where the two meet sabertooth doesnāt show up or make an appearance. but I donāt know if this tradition is still ongoing š