There is nothing wrong with having all these sorts of feelings within us.
After all, if it's there, you cannot unfeel it.
In that sense, all our feelings are valid.
So it's ok to feel the way we're feeling.
But
not all feelings are right. They are valid, but some should not be acted upon.
Some feelings come from a place of entitlement, inappropriate desires, or vile intentions. But no one would really know what we really feel inside unless we share them. They're personal, and no person can dictate another to feel in a certain way.
It's ok to feel negative, even evil. So long as they stay as feelings.
Because when you act on these valid yet "wrong" feelings,
you are ruining relationships,
you are destroying homes,
you are squashing dreams and hopes,
you have closed doors to a brighter future.
Some act on their feelings knowing the consequences of their actions.
But there are those who never knew nor realized that by acting upon their feelings,
they have transgressed themselves.
May Allah guide us to always choose to act and to do what's right regardless of what we're feeling.
