hmmm..well "girl" has various vibes in various contexts even as a gender neutral slang term but in the specific cases of dude help vs girl help. "dude help" is usually referring to someone specific and most likely the person you're actually addressing ie dude help. this homework is murder how are you doing it so fast. whereas "girl help" isn't a specific person usually, it's more like a plea and general appeal to the divine/higher powers that may be. A girl help is like. girl help i've gotten lost in the tunnels. y'know?

But it definitely fits the general tenor of my blog.