I normally like Reymas as like, a bonded pair. they have no idea what to call what they have going on but do not separate them. even if they start punching each other it's fine dw about it.
however at their most toxic it's Dismas who finally gets to be the one punishing instead of being punished and Rey who thinks punishment is how you show love (re the priest he had as a child). Neither of them know what BDSM is so it turns into a toxic co dependent mess.
Basically Rey is outsourcing his flagellation and not in a healthy fashion. Dismas is on a power trip and everyone is so normal you guys so fucking normal stop STARING.














