my issue is w ppl romanticizing unhealthy relationships n thinking they have to b unhealthy to b entertaining, enough so that most media has weird unhealthy dynamics in the written relationships. i obviously am not saying that writing an unhealthy relationship in2 ur book makes u an inherently bad person or something, its just about how its written, bc yeah Conflict i get that its a thing in writing. i think most ppl r just bad at writing shit like that cuz they dont recognize its unhealthy in the first place theyre just like yes chars that hate each other and abuse each other! we love love <3 like dude u need self awareness b4 u write serious shit. also u saying ‘oh yes i recognize its abusive but u see, abuse is just fascinating and sexy to me!’ is not self awareness its just asking me to attack u like a wild dog
