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Pile 1

How do men view you?

So the very first message I got is that based on your appearance, men might assume that you are stupid or that you are naïve. Because I see that you have really youthful features, that you might act really childish in a way not exactly childish but your personality might be really bubbly, outgoing and extroverted. It's like you always greet people with a smile, you always joke around and have fun. So based on this, men might assume that you are stupid or that you don't know much or that they can take advantage of you. However, when they finally get to know you, they feel really disappointed because you are not like this. Even though you might be really extroverted or outgoing or fun loving, on the inside you hold true beliefs, true foundations that you do not change for anyone. I also feel like a lot of you make men feel angry about certain things, so maybe you guys are narcissists or men think that you are narcissists too based on how you think and how you act. So it's like when they first see you I am talking about men when they first see you, they assume that you are going to be dumb or that you are going to fall into their charms or do as they say. But when they finally get to know you, they see that you are totally different and not like what they imagined, and that actually disappoints them to a certain level because they cannot take advantage of you. I also see that all of you are really open about your self-love, so this might be one of the reasons why men feel disappointed or angry at you because you have boundaries around you that men cannot cross, and this is what disappoints them and makes them angry because they cannot have control over you. I also see that no matter how well-established a man is, you do not give a damn fuck about him unless he's actually your friend or that he actually has good intentions toward you, and this is what angers a lot of men and makes them feel frustrated at you.

How do women see you?

You might not talk to a lot of women around you it's almost as if you do not communicate at all. I feel like you are really distant and alone from the people around you, and this forms an image that you do not want to connect or talk to anyone. What I see is that a lot of women around your circle feel as if they have not formed a true connection with you in order for you to actually share things with them. Now I also see that a lot of women feel as if they were not able to understand you. There is a feeling of being misunderstood and this comes from your energy, so maybe a lot of people (especially women) feel as if they have misjudged you in some way. Baby, I also see that you tend to get a lot of attention from men because of your personality and this might form an image of you being an attention seeker in their eyes. But when they realise that you do not give a fuck about men, they feel as if they have misjudged you or that they were not able to fully understand you and your true aura. And I also see that because of some experiences of the past, you tend to stay silent around people you don't know, especially women, because you feel as if you cannot trust anyone even if they are from your community. So your silence shows as if you do not want to have anything to do with women in your circle. I also feel like a lot of women see you as someone who is really tired, someone who is really exhausted from the things happening in their life. I also feel like they see you as someone who is depressed or really stressed about something. Women around you see you as someone who has been through a lot, someone who has been through really difficult times it’s almost like they see you as someone who has great strength, especially mental strength, and that you are someone who needs a little space or needs rest because of how tired you are. Now two messages: women actually see you as someone who is really pretty and really attractive. It’s like your appearance screams that “you are for the girls”, or you might dress for the female gaze, which a lot of people appreciate and love about you. I’ll be honest a lot of women love the way you do your hair and makeup.

How do your friends view you?

Alright, so I'll be honest. You may not have the best experiences around friend circles it's almost as if you have been dropped from every circle or every friend group that you ever formed. All of your friends see you as someone who is really distant, and a lot of you do not actually communicate well with your friends. This gives them an impression of you being sneaky or rude to them because they believe you do not trust them enough to communicate and share things, and this might be true because I feel as if you do not trust people easily, especially friends, because of some past experience. I also feel like in the past you might have been the neglected or outcasted friend of the circle because either you or your friends did not trust each other enough. There seem to be trust issues within friendships. I also see that a lot of your friends see you as someone who is not true, someone who is not fair in a way. Maybe in the past you did not belong to a well-off family and they also saw you as someone who is really poor, poor in the way you grew up, poor in the way you looked. Maybe you are not the kind of person to always spend on your friends, and most of your friends were actually just with you so they could use you for your money or your resources. But you never gave them the chance to do that, and that is why they always dropped you from their friend circle. Now, I do feel as if you might have Saturn in your 11th house or Mars in your 11th house. I also get a lot of earth energy from this pile, especially Virgo and Taurus. I am sorry but I am not getting many messages on this topic. I don't know why trust seems to be a really big or significant factor in your friendships so either your friends trust you a lot and they trust you with their life, and no matter what others say about you they will always trust you OR it could be the other way around. One thing I also see is that I keep getting messages about how you were treated as a friend and now how your friends view you, so baby this can mean something.

How do strangers view you?

Alright, so the message I'm getting: when people meet you for the first time, they see someone who is really assertive, someone who is really clear with what they want. I also feel as if you have been working on something new, or when you talk, you talk with authority, with assertiveness. You are straight to the point and you say exactly what you mean. So when people see you for the first time, they see someone who could be a great leader, someone who has great communication skills. I also see the message that when people see you for the first time, they definitely feel as if you are more than what you say. It's almost as if when people meet you, they can feel that you are not telling everything about yourself even though you may talk a lot or talk for hours, people just feel as if you are hiding something or that you are deeper than what you show. There are certain parts of yourself that are really deep. People may feel as if you are someone who likes to motivate others, someone who has a lot of knowledge, someone who is a great teacher. Another thing I see is that when people see you for the first time, they feel really calm around you you know, the type of calm you feel around someone with a great soul, like the feeling you get when you are near your grandpa or grandma. That sense of calmness, understanding and care that is how strangers feel around you. Now, this can relate to the message that you talk as if you have hundreds of years of knowledge, that you are really deep, that you are an old soul. I also see that even though you are really calm and grounded, sometimes people might be a little scared, it's your energy that instills this fear in others. You know, when you meet someone of a higher authority or higher vibration, you actually get a little scared. That may be the case here. It can also mean that when people meet someone with great potential or determination, they get a little intimidated. Or this can just mean that when people see you for the first time, they are actually scared of approaching you because of how you carry yourself.

Overall, I definitely see that a lot of people feel calm and at peace in your presence, and I also feel like you have this really magical energy.

Random messages: rose quartz, trio group, changing homes, being neglected as a child, loss of a pet, red and gold clothes, owl, scale, library/bookstore, old soul, short hair etc.

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Pile 2

How do men view you?

Okay so first of all, I feel like some of you could be attracted to Pile 1 because I got similar energies of pile one and pile 2, so if that is the case then make sure to read that one too because it might have some messages for you. Now let's proceed with the reading. So the first message I'm getting is that men view you as someone who they would want to devote their life to. No, because I got the Devotion and Simplicity card. Now what this tells me is that you have this really simple and really serene energy that makes men want to cherish you, take care of you. It’s almost as if they want to help you out, they want to be of use to you. I also see that men around your circle do not want to lose you. If they are your friends or even if they’re your colleagues, they do not want to lose you because it's almost as if you remind them of someone from their past. Maybe you remind them of their mother, maybe you remind them of their first love – there’s just something about your energy that makes men want to devote their life towards you, like they would literally want to worship you. And I also got the message that when men see you, you ignite a feeling of hope and faith within them – faith of a better future, faith that they can do better, faith of something new. You also fill them with this hope that tomorrow will be better. Maybe you have this empath energy that makes people get addicted to you, and that is why when men encounter you, they sort of fall in love with the way you treat them because you are not someone who discriminates on the basis of gender or bias. You’re like no matter who it is, you will always treat them with kindness and love. So sometimes your kindness makes men fall for you because some men cannot differentiate between love and kindness. I keep hearing “the one that got away”, so maybe that could be significant. I also see that your energy is really pure, like an angel, so men sort of get addicted to your energy. That’s why a lot of men that you’ve encountered in your life are not able to forget you at all.

How do women see you?

Alright, so women see you as someone who is really resourceful. I feel like you may really focus on your career and your work in general, and I feel like a lot of women feel inspired by you to work towards their career. I also feel like you have this girl-boss type of energy that makes you seem really, really attractive in the eyes of women. I also see that you attract a lot of admiration from women who might not be doing as good in their life as they expected, and you actually inspire them to keep working towards their goals. You inspire women to actually know their worth. It’s like you encourage them to leave things behind. Maybe you are a really good teacher or you have really good communication skills that help them find solutions to their problems. The one thing common between how men and women see you is the hope you give them and the faith you instill in them. This tells me that you have really divine energy and you encourage others to walk with dignity and respect. I do feel like a lot of women in your life put you on a pedestal. They see you as someone they want to be like, and that could be the reason why you have difficulty forming true connections with women – because you cannot be in a relationship or friendship with someone who puts you on a pedestal. I also see that some women see you as a “relationship breaker,” but not in a negative way. I do not mean you steal their boyfriends, lol. It’s actually the opposite – you “steal” their girlfriends, meaning you teach their girlfriends what a relationship should be like. If you are into K-pop, you might know about the “Rosé curse,” and you might carry one yourself 😭. I also see the Lotus being really significant in your reading. The lotus is known for spiritual awakening and blooming in not-so-positive environments. So people see you as someone who is spiritually awake, in tune with the higher, and really divine. I keep getting white or golden light maybe you have a golden aura or you wear a lot of gold. South Asia is also significant.

How do your friends see you?

Your friends definitely see you as someone who is really ambitious, and they definitely see you as someone who is a really good friend. You are someone who is very understanding and caring, and your friends talk about you being like their family. When you consider someone your friend, you consider them your family as your own. You go out of your way to do things for them, and your friends really admire this about you. I also feel like before meeting you, a lot of your friends didn’t believe in “friendship” at all. But after they met you and became friends with you, they actually understood how and what a true friendship actually is. I’m also getting the message that you might change things about yourself often – maybe your style, your personality, your hair, the way you dress. It’s like you keep evolving, you keep transforming, and this is something your friends like about you. It’s like every day they meet you, they meet a new person; they discover new things about you. I’m also getting that your friends really want to tell you that you need to chill, relax, take a rest because you’re doing so much. They see the effort you put into everything your career, relationships, friendships and they appreciate it. They don’t just see who you have become; they see your journey. They acknowledge your hardships and what you’ve been through. They just want you to have a good rest. It’s like your friends see you as someone who has been doing a lot throughout their life, someone who has been overworking themselves, so they want you to know that it’s okay to relax, it’s okay to stop and breathe.

How do strangers see you?

No shit, your energy screams witchy to people who don’t know you yet. I definitely see that some of you could be into witchcraft, spirituality, tarot, astrology, etc. And when people see you for the first time, they actually feel it. They feel as if you are different in a scary way sometimes. Let’s be honest – people are usually scared of people who practice these things. I’m also getting that a lot of strangers see you as someone who is mysterious and secretive. They assume you can read them without them saying anything. It’s the way you observe your surroundings – it makes people feel like an open book. They feel bare in front of your sight; they feel as if you can see the darkest parts of their soul. I also feel like strangers reveal things to you without you asking anything. People open up to you easily. They tell you their secrets as if they’ve known you forever. People feel like they cannot hide anything from you. Some feel like “might as well tell you because you’ll know anyway.” I also feel like a lot of people feel nostalgic in your presence. They feel as if they’ve met you before or have some kind of connection to you. You make them feel like a child; you remind them of their past. (This also relates to how men view you.) Another thing I see is that you might walk really fast or you walk like a supermodel. Something about the way you walk attracts a LOT of people. It’s like when you walk into a room, people cannot ignore you. This might be a really random message but I keep getting that you might have difficulty forming deep long-term connections. Things change for you fast. Your relationships shift quickly. Some of you might not have anyone you can call a “childhood friend” because all your childhood friends drifted away. You don’t have old connections. You’ve cut connections with a lot of people.

Random messages: beer, animal remains, broom, globe, geography major, book of shadows, crystal collection, home near a water body, living alone, fire sign, Pisces and Cancer, full moon.

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Pile 3

How do men view you?

Okay so right off the bat I got the message that men may not approach you as much as they do your friends or people around you, and this is because a lot of men believe that you are out of their league. And I’ll be honest, the message I’m getting is that a lot of men are scared to approach you because of their fear of rejection. It’s almost as if they feel they cannot approach you because you are too good to be true. You are doing really good in your life and they feel that you do not need them. I also feel as if you instill this feeling of loneliness or distance in a way where a lot of men like you but they might not approach you or might confuse their feelings because of their fear of being rejected by you. And that is because you come off as someone who belongs to a really good background. The way you carry yourself and the way you hold yourself is as if you are well put together in your life and you do not need anyone. I also feel as if men see you as someone who is really fierce and brave, and you are not afraid to call them out on their shit. So that is why a lot of men do not want to get involved with you, because they feel that if they get involved with you, it will not be good for them. But I’ll be honest, the message I’m getting is that a lot of men have a crush on you. It’s almost as if they see you as a goddess, someone who is out of their league, someone who is picture-perfect. I also got the message that you are self-sufficient from all corners. It’s like you are doing good in your studies, you are doing good physically, you are doing good financially, and you are doing good in your relationships with others and that is why you have this “I am good by myself” energy. Men feel as if they cannot offer you enough and that is why they are scared to approach you, because you make them feel less of a man, you know? Because of all the provider expectations. Let’s be honest if you are self-sufficient then what else is left for them to provide? So in a way, you make them re-examine their own needs and goals. You make them view things from a new perspective. A lot of men you encounter might have this mindset of “I have to provide for my woman, I have to take care of her financially and physically.” But you make them realise that women do not want money they want love and care. So a lot of men view you as someone who can change their perspective on life.

How do women see you?

Alright, so I see that even though a lot of women admire you and want to become like you, there is also a feeling of scepticism where a lot of women might not trust you enough. I also feel like you make them curious. I definitely feel as if there are a lot of gossips about you gossip about what you do, how you do it, and what is going on in your life. This feeling of scepticism arises from how well put-together you seem. Women see you as someone who is too good to be true. They feel as if there is something you are hiding, something that you are not expressing, so it makes them curious about you. It makes them want to know more, want to get information about you, and that is why I definitely see a lot of gossip going on around you. Another message I’m getting is that there might be some jealousy surrounding you. Women especially those who are your friends even though they are proud of you and genuinely happy for you, they are still a little envious of how much you have accomplished. So if you are really good at something, they feel a little jealous. It’s that “that should have been me” energy. I definitely feel that a lot of women actually want to be you rather than be with you in your circle. You might notice a lot of people copying your style, copying the way you do things, or basically trying to sabotage you in some way. That is the thing when you attract appreciation and adoration, you also attract jealousy and negative talks. I also get the message that subconsciously, a lot of women compare themselves to you. They compare how they could have also done the things that you did and gotten appreciated for it. I’ll be honest, the women around you need to do a lot of healing because I do not get good energy from them.

How do your friends view you?

I don’t know how to put this into words, but I feel like you actually provoke your friends in a way that gets them out of their comfort zone. So even though they get frustrated at you or get angry at you sometimes, they also appreciate you for pushing them and making them more courageous and confident. All of your friends see you as someone who will fight for them. You are the kind of person who does not stay silent when you hear someone talking bad about your friend. You actually fight for people like you’re ready to throw hands lol. It’s very “I can’t fight but my buddy can” energy. I’m also getting mixed messages from this pile, so this tells me that some people you consider your friends are not actually your friends, while some are genuinely great friends. Now it’s up to you whether this resonates or not. I also see that some of your friends actually hold negative feelings towards you. They see you as someone who is stuck, someone who does not want to move forward, or someone who is too materialistic, someone who is after “everything.” This comes from your ambition, your willingness to try everything, your multiple hobbies, and your habit of giving your 100% and this makes them feel a little jealous when you get appreciated for something they also took part in. Let me give you an example: suppose you and your friends were given a task. You, being the “I give my 100%” person, get appreciated for your work. Your friends didn’t put much effort, so they didn’t get appreciated and this creates jealousy. (Omg how many times did I say “appreciated” in this paragraph 😭🙏🏻 someone teach me vocabulary.) Moving on your friends also see you as someone who is very adaptable, someone who changes with time, someone who is full of opportunities, someone who is brave, inspiring, and who makes them feel understood when they are with you.

How do strangers view you?

Okay I’ll be honest: for some people, when they see you for the first time, they assume that you are arrogant or prideful. They see you as someone who is egoistic, but this is only until they get to know you. It’s just their first impression based on your appearance and the way you carry yourself. I am also getting the message that you have really magnetic energy. When people see you even without talking to you they feel as if you are doing great in life or that you are meant to achieve great things. You have this aura of a celebrity or a CEO. I also see that some of you might look similar to a celebrity, so people might have told you that you look like someone they know or someone popular, or that you resemble a celebrity. Strangers see you as someone who is versatile, different, and well put together. It’s like even though you do a lot of things, you are not a mess you actually balance everything out. I also got the message that some people might ask you if you are okay mentally, because some might think you are going through something. People may have told you that you look upset or stressed. I’m getting the message that when people see you for the first time, they assume that you are someone who likes being alone, someone who does not like having people around, someone who is introspective and reflective, someone who is protective of themselves. They also see you as someone who is very clear about what they want. You are not confused or indecisive you are assertive, like “this is what I want and this is what I’m going to do,” so it makes them think you are well put together. This might be random but I feel like this pile likes gardening. You might have plants around your house because I kept getting imagery of forest and greenery. I also feel that you really support women around you when you truly form a connection, you take it to your grave.

Random messages: Anchor, red bucket, sisterhood, forest fairy, Scorpio moon, pet cat, blue bird, ball gowns, hair in a bun, lantana, lavender, pink

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06 — fans aren’t obsessive and invasive

07 — idols are allowed to have their own solo social medias

08 — companies treat idols like they’re real stars and care for their mental and physical wellbeing

09 — skin tone and weight isn’t important as it is in here in the industry

10 — fans don’t ask weird questions on the fan calls and signs