#she failed

why when the kid fails parents complain about doing everything for them, but the said "everything" in question is the bare fucking minimum.

if you have the means to support your child financially that's not everything, but rather that's the bare minimum you could do for them.

like, you have children and are surprised when you need to invest money in them? (sorry if the wording seems weird-)

i understand it's frustrating that she failed, especially after you offered her support, but why are you the one who is so mad about this? shouldn't be the child the one bothered by and affected more by her failure?

i would say it's actually a good thing this didn't affect her much and that she also found another way to achieve her dream.

but since she isn't crying on the floor right now to show you how much she is affected by this, it must simply mean she didn't actually want it enough and everything that you did was nothing but a waste.