#shavenimportant

Okay guys, it’s time we’ve all had a very much needed talk. I know exams have been going on lately and a lot of people have been busy. But I’ve gotten quite a few messages from you guys saying you’re losing muse and got a couple messages asking if I would consider restarting the rp and giving everyone a fresh start. I’ve also noticed a lot of people have been lurking/not attending events and it’s just obvious that some of you don’t want to be on and have to force yourself to get on. Or i’ll announce honesty hour and people come on just for that but wont answer starters or anything like that. I will admit you guys have helped out a lot when i’ve asked you to. But not many people have been coming on and the dash has been moving slow and it’s getting hard to get people to join and i’m getting ready to move and i’ll be honest with you guys, I feel like when I don’t have like internet, this is going to die. Which kills me because i’ve busted my ass for this roleplay. Which is why i’m getting so emotional right now and seriously wanna cry. Because I feel like I need to either A - try and save the roleplay, B - Completely close it down, or C - close it down and make a new rp for you guys to join. I don’t think i’m going to use the revamp idea because if you guys aren’t wanting to get on now why would you want to then? Then i’m like horrible at coming up with new plots so im like sldkfjsflkjsdf idk maybe reply to this and help me come up with an idea. Because I literally don’t know what to do and it just hurts cause I came up with the event for today and hardly anyone participated. I gave you guys a week and 2 extra days and only like 5 people sent in their two truths and one lie /: Just.. help me out guys. Please like this once you’ve read it

Hi guys, sorry I haven’t been online yet today! I have an appointment with my family to go look at a house that hopefully we’ll be able to get financed for. I feel like you guys are all my second family so I feel like it’s okay to share this with you all. But unfortunately the other day we were informed that we have until July 15th to find a new place to live and get all out stuff out of the house were living in now. On top of my mom just having knee surgery and then my dad losing his vision which he has to have surgery for again asap. So here lately i’ve just kind of felt as if it’s one thing after another. Which has really caused my depression and anixety to go out of whack. This also means that i’m gonna need y’all’s help more than ever. Since i’m gonna be moving here soon i’m gonna need you guys to keep helping with the dash, making sure you’re answering all starters or whatnot. Which you guys have been doing pretty good at.. But yea idk i’ve been anxious all day and just wanted to write this out! I love you guys and thank you for sticking by my side no matter what! Please liket his once you’e read it.

Okay guys, time to have a little heart to heart. As you can tell here lately I have been incredibly stressed. And quite a few of you will notice that there has been some ooc drama going on with a few of you. Like I always say, I love you guys to death and you guys are all a family to me. And it wouldn’t be a family unless there were some fights. But as you all know one of the big rules on the navi is no ooc drama. I have seen to many rp’s come to a end because of it and I don’t want this to be one of them. As i’ve said before, I have noticed quite a few of you have been picking and choosing who you talk to. Or you talk to everyone and as soon as the person your character is romantically involved with gets online you ignore everyone else and just speak to that person. Not all of you do this but there’s a good chunk. I have so much going on in rl and I know I haven’t been the best admin lately but I promise i’m trying and like i’ve asked many times before i’m asking for all of your help. Make sure you’re following the rules (especially the one about answering starters before making your own) Make sure you’re not creating ooc drama. Make sure you’re answering starters and making EVERYONE feel included. I’m getting a little too tired going through the starter tag seeing one person (including myself) only get answered by maybe two people. And then another (mostly guy characters) get bombarded with replies. It should be an equal amount for both. I’ve also noticed that quite a few of you have just been lurking or making ooc post saying that you’re bored. I’m trying my best to make this as exciting as I can. I tried giving you guys exciting task and what not, But the past few task that i’ve announced everyone likes the post but hardly anyone does them, hence why I havent announced a new one yet. I’m just trying so hard. So if you have any ideas on what I can do to make it so you guys aren’t so bored please don’t be afraid to message me and let me know. I was speaking to one of our members and they had brought up how they felt like it’s getting to the point we were at towards the end or Twistedfate, how everyone was picking and choosing and just getting kind of lazy you know? Like i said, I refuse to let this end because of something so silly. And I don’t want to have to like give you guys strikes and on the third one have to kick you out. It makes me feel like some mom that’s like being horrible to her babies. I just.. I need you guys to help me out. Because tbh if it keeps going this way I don’t know how much more of it I can take. I’m putting all i’ve got into this. I love you guys and I really hope I didn’t offend any of you with this. But I just needed to get it off my chest. Please like this once you have read it. Maybe even reply with some suggestions.

MAKE SURE YOU GUYS DONT FORGET ABOUT THE DASH EVENT TONIGHT! IM ABOUT TO LEAVE NOW!!! PLEASE LIKE THIS ONCE YOU READ IT

Guys seriously if you’re lurking please make starters, reply to people and help with the dash. I know it’s a Saturday night and it’s normal. But I’m trying, everyone knew I had this memorial to go to and I just need y'all’s help! I love you guys! Please like this once you have read it.

Also before I continue with activity check, I just wanted to have a little talk with you all. I have been told by a few people that they have felt out of character drama has been going on. And I know a few of you have been getting some rude anons. Everything has been going perfect and then all of a sudden I feel like things just decided to go down hill. I know I haven’t been the best admin since I haven’t been on much, which is only because we’ve been getting ready for my moms surgery which is on Tursday and then my brothers which is Friday. This week is just gonna be all over the place. But I promise you guys I’m working my ass off for you. But if i’m going to do that I need ya’ll help as well. Which means no more ooc drama, no more rude anons. We are a family and yea families all go through rough patches. But it’s time for us to get that happy family back. I’m not gonna tolerate the drama and hate anymore. I don’t wanna sound like a bitch but I can’t put up with it anymore. I got a message on the main saying “I wish this rp could just rewind like ten days or something....” and let me tell you that broke my heart. It made me feel like i’m doing something wrong and you guys aren’t having fun anymore. I promise i’m going to get it moving again and  I just yea, i’m asking for y’alls help. This is a big/stressful week for me and i’m not going to lie to you guys i’m going to be a nervous wreck. So just please.. Please like this once you have read it.

Hi babies. So here lately me and Kelsey have both noticed and activity has been up and down. Some days you guys make it so the dash is hard to catch up on, and then it’s like some days you can see tumbleweeds going across the dash. Unfortunately it’s gotten to the point where me and kelsey have felt like we have had to come on and make sure that the dash is moving steady and then we’ve gotta go and worry about getting people which let me tell you is not easy. We know some of you guys think it’s active, which like I said, there are some days where it is. But I guess it’s where me and kels are on all the time where we notice it. And yea we know y’all have real lives and school and what not. But it’s like sometimes you guys lurk and wait for certain people to come on and idk. I guess what we’re trying to say is it’s starting to not feel like a family anymore. These past few events have been pretty stressful because when we announce it, you guys like it. But then hardly anyone shows up when it comes around to do it. I will admit there are a few of you who have come and I thank you for that. Just like the past few task tho, no one’s done any. We love you guys to death and we’re working our asses off for you guys. What we’re asking for is for yalls help. Its just getting so stressful to the point i’m crying and my blood pressure has been up (which yea happens cause i have a few medical issues but it comes with stress as well.) And Kels has been stressed as well and it’s getting to be so much. True that’s what comes with admining but It shouldn’t be this hard. We’re gonna give it a few days and give everyone a chance but if things don’t let up we’re gonna have to close the rp. We love you guys more than anything and I hope you can understand and not get offend anyone. We just wanna get the family back to the way it was when we started. Please like this once you have read it.