A kinda different question. Last con I tabled together with a friend of mine and our art levels are about the same, but I sold much more than them. It was awkward when people asked 'who drew this' or 'who's the X artist?' and my friend got very little attention. I saw she was in doubt and down bc her art didn't sell well and I felt terrible bc I didnt know what to say. How do you deal negative feelings when one person sells better than the other? We're friends and I felt really bad
Nattosoup: Â Iâve been in your position, and Iâve been in your friendâs position. Â My solution was to stop sharing a 6â table at anime cons, and give my art the room it needs to shine on its own.
Whenever you share a table, there are going to be customers who assume that a purchase from one artist is a purchase from both. Â There are things you can do to try and make it clear who has contributed what, but my past efforts did not really see fruit, and it was easiest to purchase my own tables.
Regarding the negative feelings: Â Sometimes it has nothing to do with how good an artist you are, but everything to do with the fandoms you particiate in and can chat about, how well your style suits that particular crowd, your personality, and your pricing. Â You may think your art is on the same level, but I bet one of you skews more towards cute, the other skews more towards cool, and one style just seemed a better fit for the crowd at the show. Â Although I recommend you two continue to do conventions together (it helps to have a con buddy!) I recommend against sharing a table unless you absolutely have to. Â Seperate tables will help keep jealousy down to a minimum, and hopefully increase sales.
My personal opinion on split tables is that split tables means split sales (I make less than half of what I normally make if I split a table, even if Iâm the âpopularâ artist). Â If you want to be near one another, request that your tables are placed in proximity. Â
I also recommend both of you work on developing independent fanbases online, to take some sting out of a slow convention. Â This will give you a new audience to promote and sell to, and another gauge for the worth of your work!
Kiriska: I think itâs important to be as honest as possible about these things.
Itâs a lot harder when youâre the one performing better, especially when you arenât sure how your friend feels. There is no real reason you should feel bad for selling well -- itâs easy to forget sometimes, but this isnât a zero sum game -- your doing well is not necessarily whatâs causing your friend to do poorly. It is perfectly possible that even at separate tables, your friend might have done worse than you, even if the impact may have been less.
As Becca said, even if you think your art is on a similar level, there are lots of small things that may be contributing to the difference in sales (and many of those things would still be factors even if youâre selling at different tables).
If your friend asks, you might share insight on what you think they can improve on and what aspects of selling they might approach differently (display, customer interaction, etc?). Sometimes there really isnât anything at all, and you can just give general encouragement and reassurance.Â
If they donât mention it though, I probably wouldnât say anything soâs not to risk making them feel worse or coming off like a condescending ass. Do make an effort to engage your friend in some way though -- itâs good to try to make sure that theyâre still having a good time, even if they arenât making as many sales. Consider how you might comfort your friend if they were having a bad sales day -- or how youâd congratulate your friend if they had a good sales day -- at a different table or at a different con. Donât focus on the comparative sales between the two of you.
When the opposite happens -- when you do significantly worse than your table partner -- just try not to take it to heart or as a personal insult or judgment call. Again, many things factor into sales, not just quality of work. Focus on what you can do to improve rather than on the idea that your friend is âbetter.â Ask your friend for tips and feedback instead.
I had a friend tell me before that itâs actually encouraging for them to know that their peers are doing better than them because it proves to them that thereâs a higher goal to aim for, that thereâs more sales to be had, and they just need to work harder or do things differently to get there.
I guess the bottom line is what it is for all negative feelings -- donât let it get to you. Try to shift your focus to something positive instead, something you can actually work on. And hope your friends can do the same.