#serious time

I'm sorry, but if you thought, because of my previous posts or drawings, that this is a pro-Father blog in any way, shape or form, you can yap to, you got the WRONG idea.

Me saying he is interesting to write and that people can like him as a VILLAIN doesn't mean "sure come to me with your fantasies and weird crushings on him".

I acutally find it creepy.

A yandere is a type of Japanese "trait" where someone is very violent but out of love, jealousy and obsession, often associated with young girls. Two things:

1) saying that you are actually saying "I don't believe Father is truly evil" because the BASE for yandere is a sick form of LOVE. You are justifying him. This goes against EVERYTHING my latest post said, and is trying to REDEEM him or paint him as someone who CARES. Which, again, is something that goes against his character.

I am all for writing him realizing his mistakes, but this does NOT equal redemption, forgiveness or love. It's just an interesting POV.

2) Yandere, like tsundere, himedere etc, are kind of sexualizations in our modern age. Maybe this is not the case for you, but they are.

You are fantasising about something that makes you happy, gives you gratification and YOU KNOW is wrong. And you called it fantasy yourself.

Just slapping a "but he is evil" here and there after 2000 compliments doesn't sell it.

Am I saying you're a bad person? No. I think you are young and will understand.

Am I saying you can come to me with this stuff? ABSOLUTELY NOT. This is not a pro-Father blog. That man disgusts me.

Then why did you write that post? You don't need to love a character to write about them. Actually, you can hate a character and find it interesting for their evilness.

There's a difference.

I hope with time it becomes clearer.

The longer answer is: While being in the DHMIS fandom and making art for it was a fun time for me, the last time I drew anything involving it was... Freshman year of college. I've graduated since then. I've moved onto other interests, and don't intend to return to something that no longer makes me happy.

When I draw fanart, it's because I'm excited about something, and want to express that excitement and appreciation for it through artwork.

Nowadays, most of the energy I have for fanart has been going towards Welcome Home and the D&D characters/sessions that me and my friends play with one another.

Though I'd like to personally thank you for being polite with your question. (The following screenshot is a more recent example, but others have been... A lot more rude about me not drawing DHMIS anymore.)

(And that's just one of the examples I'm willing to share. Others have used much cruder language.)

People in the past have been very persistent about me wanting to return to making DHMIS content, even though that's... not what I want to draw anymore. It happened often enough that it killed any remaining excitement for the new DHMIS episodes that came out about two years ago.

But, all that aside- thank you for sticking around! I'm glad you enjoy the art I make. Just telling me that you like my stuff inspires me to keep making the things I love, seeing that others are also enjoying what I create.

I intend to keep up with offering and making art commissions, as well as create fanart for the things I enjoy. Though I also hope to be able to create more original stuff as well. (Maybe someday I'll even finally get back to making that webcomic lol, once I finally figure out how to make a solid plot that I'm happy with.)

(This part goes for anyone who interacts)

And I do want you to know, I’m not being serious when I point out grammar errors, I know it’s hard, and English is a stupid language, and has doubly stupid grammar rules, and I promise no hard feelings were implied, and (this goes for anything I post) I will delete anything that the op or the person I reblogged is uncomfortable with what I added or if they don’t want me to share it, I will tag triggers if someone asks me (please do, I am more than willing to, I want to make what I do as accessible as I can), and most importantly, the vast majority of this blog is not serious. If I call out your error, or call you a dumbass, or in any way say anything that hurts you, tell me, because I didn’t want to in my post and I don’t want to in the future.

On a similar vein, if someone on the web version of tumblr with the shinigami eyes plugin sees that I rebloged someone that’s red (I can’t see them cause I’m on iPhone) (thanks @blueengland (I think it’s you sorry if not), you’re the best), or someone that you know is a pedo/map, anti-abortion, a trans/aro/ace/homo/intersex phobe/exclusionist, racist, sexist, rape/abuse supporter/devaluer (I can’t remember the right word sorry), or is otherwise a generally bad person to be around, please, PLEASE tell me. If you don’t want to reblog/reply, my dms are open and so is my askbox (just say that you don’t want me to post it and I won’t), I don’t want those kind of people here, I want this space to be as welcoming as possible, and those people don’t want that, and as such they aren’t welcome here.

Oh yeah, what I said on this post! I could have given you a short answer like a normal blogger, but here is my long, rambling answer where I basically agree and get a little off track and go more in detail about the suckiness of the reboots/the suckiness of saying the girls aren't special if they're older... behind the cut. 🤣

I was never aware that the tags apparently are "age managed." Plenty of people do things of this nature without having to worry about stuff like this. I also was not (and am not) aware of what "main tags" are. So I sincerely do not know what you are referring to, specifically. And if you wish to call me out and claim I'm playing dumb...no, I'm not playing, I sincerely have no clue. I honestly have never seen any reason or known of any reason to monitor my tags, so I have not done so for that reason above all else. IF, from the way you're speaking, this is some sort of unspoken rule on Tumblr, or if I perhaps missed something way, way back when I joined the site, then I apologize and I am perfectly willing to "change my behavior," as you put it, because the last thing I want is to scar young innocent people for life, the way you claim happened to you. However, having said that, I would like to say two more things. One, there is no reason to threaten me with reporting like this. One other person came to me some time ago to tell me that, evidently, the "g/t" tag is one that is meant for all ages, so I shouldn't use it. I thanked them, apologized, and I no longer use that tag. They, in turn, thanked me, apologized in case they seemed rude, and then moved on with their life. Like I said, I am totally willing to change my practices if that is something that HAS to happen; I do not like breaking the rules. But your rudeness is not appreciated, by seemingly assuming that I am doing this maliciously. A simple "you shouldn't use these specific tags" would have been well and good, then I'd know to either change how I manage that matter, or stop wielding them altogether. Two, and most importantly...if this stuff offends you and bothers you so much, then you have no reason to look at my page. And I do not believe my little kink blog is some blight upon whatever taglines you're referring to; if by "main tags" you're referring to things like my more analytical pieces that have nothing to do with kinks, there's not much I can do there, especially since those AREN'T kink-based. As far as I can perceive, those are doing no harm. If by "main tags" you're referring to character names or whatever...I can search a character name and find tons upon tons of stuff that has nothing to do with kinks long before I run into anything related to my interests. I know, I've tried. My work and others doesn't really pop up too often, UNLESS I'm specifically looking for the kink in conjunction. Also, I should think that anyone reading it will realize it's not for them and turn away.