#sera posting

she runs a transfem server, but it used to be for everyone. She made jokes nobody thought were jokes, and used her power improperly. Several things happened that went against my moral code and before I even said anything I was banned alongside every guy in the server.

Later I find out there was someone coerced into a relationship against their will, and several people were being used to keep the server running /adding features. All of them were banned and replaced without warning or thanks for their work. Several more people came forward about both issues after a few weeks, I saw screenshots but it's personal for all of them so I'm not sharing screenshots.

There are a few people who were making eugenics jokes in the server and until I was banned, they were allowed to say whatever. My perspective was that this was not seen as an issue, and was put off until public outcry forced her hand in the matter. She has told me she was concerned that whole time. Believe who you choose to believe.

As far as I know, the only mention of pedos has been folks in her camp misinterpreting my critique of the power imbalance inherent in a 10+ year age gap when the person in question is less than 20. It was legal, however in my mind morally dubious as I know what was said and it wasn't as consensual as it should have been. I have used the term grooming, as Sera did hold public power over those she saught out and used what she knew about them to get close. She then used these people primarily for her own pleasure, without regard for their feelings (paraphrasing their words in order to respect their privacy).

The death party is reference to a private groupchat where one of the people harmed by sera (I use the term victim however it is a legal gray area whether any laws were actually broken) went on to say they will be happy / throw a party after she's dead. Now this is classless, but I retain if someone harms you, you have the right to say in private anything you like about them. These comments were made public by a breach of privacy. That does not excuse them.

The trans person of colour in question is Sera, who I found out is a person of colour during this beef. I've met with her over camera before and never realized it, that's my bad. That being said, it's not racist to have beef with an individual. Without divulging any significant personal info, I'm pretty darn sure I'm inclusive of trans people. I'm pretty darn sure I'm inclusive of people of colour.

As for manipulation, please read her blog's pinned post and form your own opinion. In it, she phrases her assistance with one virtual event for dashcon as a pivotal life-preserver for the community. She claim death threats were made (only one I've seen was yesterday when someone told me to kill myself lol). She uses her marginalized status in various communities to hide behind, when the criticisms she faces are only related to how she treats others-- not who she is. Her Joan of Arc claims of grandeur are linked to having Twilight on hard disc drive. These do not indicate to me someone concerned with objective truth, but rather someone concerned with growing an audience of viewers.

If you hear anything about a 'witch hunt', it's just me and my friends trying to get her to apologize without being sarcastic about it. She's apologized for trusting us, she's apologized for existing, but neither of those were bad. She has yet to apologize for using people, yet to apologize for banning all trans men from a trans server, yet to apologize for misgendering and manipulating trans & enby teenagers, or for her role in the spying & bullying of at least one of my friends.

I got my first bit of hate mail today! From a blog that's already been deleted. In it, it criticised me for hating trans women. I'd like to set the record straight. I may be beefing with one particular trans woman right now, but make no mistake. I'm beefing with her because she almost pushed my friend to suicide, after emotionally manipulating them and cheating on her real life partner in the process. I fully support Sera's transness. The fact that she can't be out irl sucks and I wish the best for her in the future.

She takes credit for running a sanctuary server set up by one of my other friends. She takes credit for events at dashcon 2 which inflate her part in it. She used to stalk Strange Aeons because she wanted equal fame. She has continued to DM people significantly younger in her server to curry favor. People who don't know any better asked to defend her against a fictional witch hunt. Not minors, but 19-20. People without significant support systems.

In her newest 10 or so page writing on the matter she claims no intent to harm. Why continue to stalk the socials of those hurt, then? Why ask friends to spy on private chats and send screenshots back as evidence? Why not admit to the cheating, forced e-dating, detrans talk, or any of the things that actually happened? Even if somehow unintentional, there are young adults out here who have been tangibly and forever impacted by her behavior.

I would also like to clarify that I don't hate her at all. I think she needs to be publicly called out and make things right by offering a legit, sincere apology to the dozen or so people she has hurt in the last year. I have no quarrel with who she is as a person, merely the actions she has taken and their fallout.

At this time she has not personally apologized directly to any of the people she directly hurt. The apology was given to us "dear readers". Not to K, or C, or A, or D, or any of the wonderful people dimmed by her intentional manipulation and emotional abuse.

I've seen and experienced untrue defamation attacks so i hesitate to believe the sera groomer and pedophile attacks at face value.

But i do agree she did emblish that memoir of hers, you could argue its to make her deeds of streaming twilight seem bigger than it was, but I feel its just a writing quirk.

Overall there's too much shit in the air to make heads from tails as an outsider. I just hope nobody gets unnecessarily hurt from the divorce.

A few people have been hurt by it, but I appreciate your hopes. One individual has left all social media in response to being named in that memoir. I can understand why from an outside perspective nothing seems like that big of a deal / standard lies on the internet and I don't blame you.

I personally do not want to stoop to a level where I'm airing someone else's dirty laundry through screenshots or low-blow material so there isn't much to believe me with. Sera has a different opinion, and has shared half a dozen.