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“Today, I’m marrying my best friend.” 🥱 “Quiet as a mouse.” 🥱 “I’m a hard worker.” 🥱 Did you just descend into REM status? Have you heard these sayings before and sort of rolled your eyes? Clichés do contain an element of truth. But they can quickly become trite and well, boring. Let them be in that sh*tty first draft, but use your revision to expand, challenge them. How about “today I’m marrying the person who laughs at my NSFW jokes.” What else is quiet? An empty orchestra room? The bottom of an ocean? What does being a hard worker look like? Hours worked? Big projects? Going back to school part time with 2 kids and a mortgage in tow? You can start with cliches, but if you want your writing to feel more *you*, get specific. Make them see *you*. 😀 Need help revising and/or creating work that feels more you? I’m a developmental editor and this is what I do (rhyme unintended…) Check out my site at hannahoeko.com/coaching and sign up for my moonletter newsletter to stay connected. • #blackfeminism #selfhelpbook #blackauthorsmatter #divinefemininerising #selfloveadvocate #hippiemama #bookcoach #writingcoach #bookcoaching #selflovematters #writingcoaching #blackjoy #blackmentalhealth #hannaheko #honeyistheknife (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ2kTJKBng1/?utm_medium=tumblr

Power is domination. A chimpanzee hierarchy of “power over”. Power as aggression. This is the power we teach as “badass” and cool. This power is a spectrum. This is the power of the HNIC and the tyrannical dictator. This is “bow down” b*tches. This power is a spectrum of healthy masculine (centered warrior) to wounded masculine (toxic narcissist). This is a power of outward force and control, from healthy ambition to violence. There is another power. This is the power of sovereignty, of power as “I am”. This is power to. Power as innate, as offering. This is power to receive, power as presence. This is power of submission. This is the power we rarely teach and when we do, it’s usually about trying to manipulate a man or Womanhood As Sacrifice of Self. This power is a spectrum from coercive puppet-playing to only giving from overflow. (The kind of giving that feels like receiving because you’re not starving afterwards.) In the healthy feminine this is abundant happiness and in the wounded feminine this is dishonest codependent. Power is an energy in and out of Self. Power is an action to and over Other. We’re used to men and the masculine being seen as powerful and women and the feminine being seen as powerless. Those of us who exercise a fluidity of power are seen as weird, threatening, or wrong. Or you know, a little queer. 😉 The solution is balance & healing. The solution is learning to exercise a power that respects the Self as much as the Other. This is the power of assertion. Every time you: Decide to change Write your truth Admit when you’re wrong Say sorry Say yes Say no Admit where you hurt State or list your desires You are powerful. What were you taught about power? Where do you want to grow in power? • #blackfeminism #selfhelpbook #blackauthorsmatter #divinefemininerising #selfloveadvocate #hippiemama #blackcreators #selflovemovement #selflovewarrior #selflovematters #divinefeminineenergy #blackjoy #hannaheko #honeyistheknife (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZKzwnuPSY7/?utm_medium=tumblr

Sending virtual hug sa lahat ng may pinagdadaanan. That's normal. 🤗 Importante we learn from it and it can make us stronger. 😘😘😘 #selflove #selfimprovement #selfloveadvocate #selfloveblogger #selfcare (at Manila, Philippines) https://www.instagram.com/p/CXxkrGdhaDj/?utm_medium=tumblr

Hey let's talk about you. How are you? #selflove #selfimprovement #selfloveadvocate #selfloveblogger #selfcare #selfcareblogger #affirmation #selfdiscovery #selfdiscoveryjourney (at Manila, Philippines) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUv1P0lBnhr/?utm_medium=tumblr

Darating talaga yung time na mapapasabi kang... F*ck those people who constantly disturbing my peace. Mahal ang peace of mind para sa mga adult, para yang treasure na dapat alagaan! Pahalagahan! Pero may mga ipinanganak at sa sama ng loob puro reklamo! Rant! 😅 And that's OKAY - MINSAN. But please excuse my I DON'T CARE FACE. Mag rant ka I don't care. I want my peaceful life. 💜💜 ✌🏼 #selflove #selfimprovement #selfloveadvocate #selfloveblogger #selfcare #selfcareblogger #affirmation (at Bacoor, Cavite) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPyFfCRhQvv/?utm_medium=tumblr

Hi everyone! Did you know May is Mental Health Awareness Month? (May is also Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month 💜) Mental Health is truly important to me, because it is something I knew very little about about until I was older. I’ve lived, coped, and endured with my own journey. From anxiety, to intrusive thoughts, to depression, and not being kind of myself. It took me a long time to address it and be honest with myself and realize how I want to write my own story and heal. We are all dealing with our own journey. Mental health issues don’t make you weak and they don’t define you. Your experience, your pain, your lows, your path, your hopes are all valid. You come first and it’s important to learn how to check in with yourself. I am personally a trained community counselor but I am not a licensed mental health professional so I will direct you to those here & these resources to great follow this month for anyone in knees of support or where to start with seeking therapy ❤️: @mentalhealthamerica @namicommunicate @joinreal For BIPOC: @ethelsclub @inclusivetherapists @latinxtherapy @asiansformentalhealth @browngirltherapy @jointhecosmos Other supportive clubs for de-stigmatizing mental health & advocacy: @rarebeauty @girlsnightinclub @saddie_baddies I personally will be sharing little supportive notes and checks in like this, coming from a supportive bestie core 💜 because I truly want everyone to know it can get better, some days might still be tough (it still is for me too), and resources are available for you #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #destigmatizementalillness #loveyourself #selfloveadvocate #embraceyourself #wellbeingsupport #mentalhealthadvocate #contentcreationtips #selfdevelopment #selflovejourney #selfloveclub #youareworthy #rabbitrabbit (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/COVyRx1gS6r/?igshid=5zrs5lzzaf88

Have you tried any sets + fits from @adoreme ? The first photo (name of this set is Evan) is my favorite because it was all natural light shot, with minimal edits done. When we moved in to our new place I was worried about getting good light, this but shot reminded me how wonderful our new home is. But to the details! This beautiful sea blue set is so soothing and fits really well (@adoreme has a fit calculator for your needs too). It gives me mermaid/the movie Aquamarine The second photo is the Candice set and it’s a more casual wear, post shower and chill in bed vibes ✨ Both are my favorite for their style + detail and comfort. Please invest in those cute lil lingerie bags for the wash to retain your pretty undergarments wear and limit any damage from the washer or dryer! Check out @adoreme spring collection for these styles if you want to try one for yourself 💜 #adoreme #gifted #selfempowerment #loveyourself #selfloveadvocate #embraceyourself #selfdevelopment #selflovejourney #selfloveclub #youareworthy #alliseeispretty #choosejoy #glitterguide #creativecontent #socialmediacontentcreator #calledtocreate #livecreatively #seekinspirecreate #springstyleinspo #pinterestinspo #creativesofinstagram #fashioninspo #outfitdiary #ootdguide #styleinspirations #stylepost (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/COQhRS8Ag9m/?igshid=461zo8regzd