#self healer

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to a certain extent, fantasizing good things is hella important. but, what happens when such thing is no longer serving you but rather distracts you from living your purpose? this post could help you better understand your path to self-healing!

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astro background about obsession/fantasies:

an obsession is very much plutonian in nature as pluto rules the 8th house and obsessions, our dark powerful side. but pluto is also insanely powerful.

however, an imagined obsession, or an imagined fantasy is not obsession per se, as it is more neptunian in nature when we project something onto the person/experience we feel for now we couldn't encounter/get to. and neptune is also super powerful as an entity- it fuels our dreams more than any other planet!

so, i made this post as a bonus post for the romantic week special ecause my intention for this week's posts and in general is to help us all get back to our place of power and self love, so we can attract better!

note: check for both your pluto house+sign

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pluto 1st house/aries ✧ obsession begins with identity here. love fantasies often stem from wanting to merge with someone so deeply that you lose yourself. healing means rebuilding self-image and learning to feel powerful without attaching that power to another. when you own your intensity instead of projecting it, obsession transforms into magnetic self-confidence.

pluto 2nd house/taurus ✧ love obsession ties into self-worth and possessions. fantasies often reflect a belief that someone else will make you feel valuable. healing comes from reclaiming your own worth and creating stability within. when you stop seeking validation through another, you uncover unshakable self-love and release attachment.

pluto 3rd house/gemini ✧ obsession can live in the mind here, replaying words, texts, and imagined conversations. fantasies form through communication loops. healing means cleansing your mental space — journaling, breathwork, mantra — and transforming obsessive thought into conscious expression. speaking your truth breaks the cycle of silent fixation.

pluto 4th house/cancer ✧ fantasies often connect to deep ancestral wounds or unmet emotional needs from childhood. obsession emerges from craving emotional safety in another. healing lies in creating inner sanctuary — forgiving the past, building emotional roots, and learning to mother yourself. home becomes the place you stop chasing outside.

pluto 5th house/leo ✧ obsession arises through romance, crushes, and creative passion. fantasies here can feel all-consuming, like a performance of love that never ends. Healing requires reclaiming play and creativity for yourself instead of tying it to another. art, dance, or joy practices transform obsessive longing into pure life-force expression.

pluto 6th house/virgo ✧ love obsession can become a ritual here — daily patterns, routines, or even work situations fueling fixation. fantasies grow from repetition. healing is about transforming habits: detoxing your day-to-day, releasing obsessive rituals, and creating sacred discipline. by reprogramming your routines, you dissolve unhealthy attachments.

pluto 7th house/libra ✧ obsession lives in partnerships here — projecting intensity onto others, often falling for unavailable or powerful figures. fantasies often replace true intimacy. healing means confronting the shadow of control and surrendering the need to dominate or be dominated. true balance comes when you see relationships as mirrors, not saviors.

pluto 8th house/scorpio ✧ this is the realm of obsession itself. desire feels karmic, binding, fated. fantasies often revolve around total merging or taboo dynamics. healing is learning to embrace transformation without losing your soul. practices of release — breathwork, shadow work, rituals of letting go — allow you to alchemize obsessive desire into spiritual power.

pluto 9th house/sagittarius ✧ fantasies expand here into ideals of someone who completes your vision of truth. obsession arises through belief systems or long-distance, unavailable loves. healing means questioning the belief that salvation comes through another person. freedom, travel, and higher wisdom dissolve the fixation into a broader spiritual path.

pluto 10th house/capricorn ✧ obsession manifests through status, reputation, or power dynamics. fantasies may involve authority figures or being seen through love. healing requires shifting from seeking validation through others to building your own legacy. as you step into your true calling, obsession melts into empowerment.

pluto 11th house/aquarius ✧ fantasies form through friendships, social media, or idealizing someone from afar. obsession can look like constantly watching, comparing, or longing for connection in groups. healing is detaching from collective approval and returning to authentic community. real friendships dissolve fantasy’s grip.

pluto 12th house/pisces ✧ obsession hides in the unconscious, manifesting as secret longings or dreams of soulmates. fantasies here are often spiritual, karmic, or illusory. healing comes from surrender — meditation, dream work, shadow integration. letting illusions fall away, you realize the love you craved was always within.

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neptune 1st house/aries ✧ fantasies blur around identity you may project an idealized self onto others or fall in love with who you wish you were through them healing comes by embracing your sensitivity and letting your authentic presence shine when you stop mirroring others you magnetize real love that sees the true you

neptune 2nd house/taurus ✧ love fantasies attach to worth and possessions. you may imagine being saved financially or adored for your beauty. healing comes through grounding self worth in inner value not illusions of external rescue. true stability comes when you realize you already hold your own treasure.

neptune 3rd house/gemini ✧ fantasies swirl through words texts and imagined conversations. love becomes a mental movie. healing means clearing! illusions in communication, practicing honesty, journaling, and learning to listen deeply when your voice matches your heart.

neptune 4th house/cancer ✧ you may project fantasies of the perfect home or perfect partner who makes you feel safe. healing comes through nurturing yourself - creating emotional sanctuary from within by becoming your own safe harbor. you release illusions of salvation through another.

neptune 5th house/leo ✧ romantic illusions thrive here. falling for unavailable muses or chasing fairytale, crushes, fantasies become an art form. healing means reclaiming romance and creativity for yourself. channeling the dream into art, play and joy. you do not need someone else to spark your magic!@

neptune 6th house/virgo ✧ fantasies seep into routines. imagining perfect coworkers, healers or lovers who fix everything. healing comes by grounding spirituality into daily practice. when you create sacred structure, ritual health service illusions lose their hold and love becomes embodied.

neptune 7th house/libra ✧ love fantasies are strongest here. idealizing partners, projecting soulmates, falling for unavailable people. healing comes by seeing relationships clearly without the dream filter when you accept others as human instead of saviors, you open space for real connection.

neptune 8th house/scorpio ✧ fantasies here are intense, merging and karmic. you may project mystical depth onto others and confuse obsession with destiny. healing means practicing boundaries and learning to merge spiritually without losing yourself transform fantasy into spiritual intimacy.

neptune 9th house/sagittarius ✧ fantasies revolve around ideals beliefs or distant lovers. you may project the role of guru or savior onto others healing comes by questioning illusions of ultimate truth in another and seeking your own higher wisdom. love becomes a journey of inner expansion.

neptune 10th house/capricorn ✧ fantasies project onto authority figures or public images. you may fall for someone's status, reputation or idealized role. healing means reclaiming your own path of success instead of attaching to theirs. when you shine in your own right, projections dissolve.

neptune 11th house/aqaurius ✧ fantasies project onto friends, communities or online personas. you may imagine closeness with people you barely know. healing means discerning true belonging from illusions of connection. cultivating authentic friendships replaces projection with genuine support.

neptune 12th house/pisces ✧ fantasies bloom in dreams, unconscious longing or secret loves. you may fall for unavailable, hidden or unreachable figures. healing comes from spiritual surrender, meditation, dreamwork, compassion practices. love here is about dissolving illusion and recognizing the divine within.

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