This week, I decided to make my own meme. I used a template of āI bring a sort of X vibe to Y that Z donāt really likeā. The original meme actually reads āI bring a sort of 'we should all quit' vibe to the workplace that bosses don't really likeā. Itās been around for a while, but gained popularity on TikTok fairly recently where people cover up sections of the sentence and turn it into anything theyād like from fan content to funny stories from their own life. I decided to make this into a little piece of commentary on the experience of a romance reader with Jane Austen because, as someone who is a big romance novel fan, Jane Austen novels often feel like youāre getting so close to exactly what you want, just for the āinterestingā part to be skipped over (This is why fanfiction and the Pride and Prejudice 2005 end credit scene are perfect to me, and I will die on that hill). Donāt get me wrong, I still have an appreciation for Austen novels and Pride and Prejudice is up there in my top 3 favorite books, but itās not because I see them as the romance novels I typically go for. Honestly, I canāt call Jane Austen novels romances. You certainly get bits and pieces of it, but they arenāt fully about romance.
What was really fun about this template to me though was how putting Jane Austen in to fill the last blank makes it sound as if Jane Austen herself is purposefully removing the romance from the books and toying with the romance readers. I think I can agree with that on some level. Weāve talked before about how thereās an idea that Jane Austen is purposely depriving her readers of the romance aspects they are looking for. To me, I think Iāve come to the conclusion that itās more of a situation where romance is just not that important to Austen. I think she knows that sheās excluding something, itās on purpose, but I donāt know if itās with malicious intent so much as with a lack of interest in it. I wasnāt really sure how to feel on this point though until in Secrets in the Snow, where we get a bit of a look into Jane Austenās life. Itās a YA novel and a murder mystery so things are probably dramatized, but as far as I understood from class today it seems to be overall a pretty accurate depiction of her circumstances. Assuming the book is an accurate representation of her life, I can understand why romance may not have been all that important to her. She seems to have been living comfortably (at least not poorly enough to be desperate to marry) and mostly free to write as she pleased, which seemed to be her real goal in life. She didnāt want any of the things like money or companionship which might entice other ladies of the time to marry, and itās entirely possible she didnāt ever really fall in love (the whole Tom Lefroy thing would be amusing for me, but seems not super realistic). Because of this, I do think that Austen is purposefully excluding romance, but itās not meant to be a vicious dig at romance readers; if itās anything it may be a situation where she sees it as being below her. However, the structure of this meme does function in a way where if people see Austen as a more vicious/cruel being they can definitely get that from this meme too which I liked when making it.












