#secondlifematernity

Soooo its official I am preggers! After all Wav and I have been doin lately trying out every kind of furniture imaginable and pushing our limits in all the moderate public sims we could find, a seed has sparked! I am a couple days behind my beloved tigress Kanaga who is also preggers right now! We have been full of fervor and passion up in this house! Especially after I found out that my new rose is capable of turning me on in some kinky ass ways.  XD I will have to post more info on that later when she produces seeds. I basically got an eden goin outchea on the grid. Lol

Kuro (Black) and Kanaga (Orange) are so cute together lol. We be chillen... I have been with them since day 1. They actually grew! I never thought I’d end up a breeder in SL. I remember back in the day I used to wonder why people did it. 10 years later, I get it now!

Wow so a lot has happened since last time.. Kanaga is preggo with her second and I gave birth to our beautiful child...

Wav pulled up the day of our gender reveal date in a pink droptop rarri, he was manifesting HEAVY! I had a cute spring fit on clearly ready to go on vacation! Had to tie the royal blue up on my locs (Funkystench taxi). Vixen was so excited to see the giant ass box full of balloons she ran straight into that shit. All cats big or small are the same, they go by the motto “If I fits, I sits” XD.

We went to Jamaica Resort for the birth and vacation time. It is perfect! We rented a gorgeous home on the water it has everything there and we decided on the shore by the sea is where we would bring our daughter into the griddy world.

Took some beautiful maternity shots by our place there, felt regal and like a true daughter of Yemaya. I have always loved the sea and it has always been an integral part of my spiritual journey, growth and healing. It was so nice to be able to take my bae on the yacht. We hadn’t yet been sailing together. I got to impress him with my impeccable steering and now he knows that I am fit to be and always will be the true captain! XD

Taxi to Noir Jamaica Resort

I got into labor shortly after the photoshoot. I was on the beach chillen on the sand and all of a sudden it is darkened and wet. I screamed for bae who was already closeby and he helped me get situated on our Xcite towel. We laughed about how the company that helped us concieve would bear witness to the product of all its work. A ZoobyXEcite Collab. So I used this Tummy Talker for my pregnancy its only 99Ls and it was a beautiful experience.

https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/BabyBundles-Real-Pregnancy-Experience-Tummy-Talker-HUDs/15334192

We both enjoyed every moment of it! All of the food and vitamins and gifts are given to you by the Hud free and it also includes a partner HUD! Its just made with love and generosity and for our first SL child it was a great way to start! The labor was intensive we had a quick delivery it lasted 15 minutes but you have options to make it up to an hour long. Wav delivered his daughter with me and the ocean spirits . We didnt have any doula or medical service. Next child we will try different methods. We decided on a Zooby baby to switch to after the newborn. The newborn comes with a feeding chair and you can also breastfeed it which I absolutely loved. I quickly became attached to the Tummy Talker newborn even though we got a zooby. Its just the energy put into that product that is so loving.

I knew as soon as we found out we would have a daughter that she and Wav would have a special bond and not even 30 seconds in, that bond was solidified. Naturally I took that as my moment to fix my hair and pass tf out. Tomorrow is self care mama spa day! He got this! XD

First trimester and I am in nesting phase, I will have to do another post about the kind of pregnancy experience I chose and share what I used. I asked Wav to buy some Mp3s to play for our baby, we decided on some Miles Davis, Coltrane, Duke Ellington... Jazz music we both agreed, would be great for the baby. We are big on culture creation in this home. Of course now I have been eating way more, and so has he! Every extra meal I have he wanna squeeze in some bites too. I decided as long as he is feeding me first I can look the other way lol. I am so proud and in awe at how attentive he is to my needs. When I am feeling down or overwhelmed he gifts he randomly and It just brings so much light and joy to my heart.

So we passed out the other night after some shopping at the Diamond district. It is def a must see! So many gorgeous pieces, I got me a ballin ass chain that says “The world is yours” on it from Chalo. (Taxi here) I look forward to seeing that area grow! So I wake up from a long ass nap and my man is replaced with a huge ass bodypillow! I call this dude up and he is at TheGrand without me! I could feel all my emotions mush up at once, I couldnt even tell you what I felt.. confusion, sadness, anger, lonliness, all at once ! I went on and on rambling on the phone and next thing I know he is pulling up in the driveway ready to bring me along... so maybe I overreacted... maybe. xD

This shop was cuuute, its called Kazza. I was saying to Wav how some of the structures there look like what Secondlife welcome center SHOULD be. They need to work with this company to revamp that welcome island... its long long long OVERDUE!

Wav bought and built a cute crib and I got that dresser thats behind me...so we really out here nesting for real.  After he headed out to the studio I took it upon myself to play a couple rounds of Star Wars Battlefront 2 and geek out on Twitch.