Hi, I am DMAB, and I recently came out as being a transgirl. However, even though I prefer being viewed as a female, and hate the pronoun "he", part of me still embraces my masculine side. Sometimes I feel most comfortable when I present as androgynous, or gender ambiguous. Does this make me some kind of bi-gender, or two-spirit gender person? I sometimes go by "she", sometimes as "they"?
hi. two-spirit is a native american term, so unless that’s part of your identity you are not two-spirit.
presentation and expression are not always related to gender, and pronouns are not set to one specific gender. you can use whatever pronouns feel comfortable and dress how you like/what makes you feel safe, none of that necessarily changes your gender. embracing your masculine side does not mean that you are a man, it could just mean that that’s a part of you that you are in touch with, even if you don’t identify with it in a gender way. (i hope that made sense).
~karianne
