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Parental care is no easy work. And the most important challenging aspect of parenting is learning to relate to your child. Children take it literally and the way you speak to them builds their personality a long way. However, as a parent, when you’re in the middle of juggling tasks, you may end up responding to your child, sometimes even saying unintended words.

Unfortunately, the mind of a child is not mature enough to realize that these were unintended and as a result, their little brains are impaired.

Kids are sensitive, and it is important for parents to know before what they say or how they behave with them sometimes. They are affected and you may not know how?! The only way we can prevent this from happening is by watching carefully what we’re talking to and around our children. We can make a better of ourselves with a little effort and good will and reduce the mishaps.

This article will tell you things that you should never say to your kids:

Never shake self-confidence in your kids

There will be moments when kids will like to do something and you know, they can’t do. Don’t straight away say this to them. Remember to give them a chance, as long as they don’t feel hurt. Don’t just say no, this response can make them feel that you don’t believe them instead ask them if they can manage to do so or offer them your help. However, the better option is ‘let us do it together! Children learn by trial and error. They would never try something different though, if you make them scared to try it out.

Do not speak to me

There might be times when did something wrong or didn’t listen to you and you as parents punish them by saying “Don’t talk to me”!

Never ban the communication channel between you and your kids. Never let the children stop talking or complaining. Let them openly ask, and express their views. If you want them to stick to your suggestions, always talk to them. Either explain them what they should be doing, and why it’s relevant. Do not block the communication channels between your child and yourself. Try talking to them, listen to them and then convince for your point, abandoning them is the first thing you should never do.

Boys/ Girls don’t do this

Today we all talk about gender equality and yet when it comes to practice at our home, many of us failed right over there. A kid is a kid so let them be. Do not create rules that are based on their gender. Let kids decide for themselves — whether to be more like a girl or a boy when they grow up. Don’t stop them doing stuff they may be curious about or good at.

You are a bad kid

Whenever your kids do something bad, parents most of the times end up telling them that they are a bad boy/girl. Never feed your child with negative thoughts, it kills their self-esteem. The child is innocent and naively believes. Ask them to always be healthy, happy and positive. Explain to them politely that certain words or acts are evil, and can damage or injure someone. But don’t tell them, they are a bad boy / girl.

Teach them what is right and wrong; give them those values of good over bad things and actions. Give them more positive comments like you are a good boy/ girl, don’t do such thing and there might be chances that they’d never take you back down again.