UPDATE: My new side blog; what will change on my CO blog and what will stay the same
INTRODUCING OUTLANDER FANDOM FOLLIESÂ
As some of you may recall, last week I was  looking into changing the name and emphasis of my CO blog and archiving my SamCait debunk and fandom history posts onto a side blog. Well, my new side blog is up and running but the changes to my CO blog will be more modest than I first anticipated.
My new Outlander Fandom Follies side blog can be found HERE.
A SamCait debunk and fandom history archive. I hope to eventually reblog the major fandom and SamCait debunk posts Iâve written over the years onto this blog. Iâm hoping that putting the major posts together in one side blog will make them an easier resource to access for those who want that information. (Surprisingly, many people do. According to Statcounter, my most frequently viewed posts during the past 10 months are some of my oldest SamCait debunks. Go figure. đ¤ˇ)
Fandom discussions will no longer happen on my CO blog but will be allowed on my new blog. I will also use this new blog if I want to address fandom issues or to call out or defend myself from certain trolls. This way, any fandom drama will be limited to this new side blog and will be avoided on my main CO blog.
No Verra Sensible essay series. Iâve started the new blog off by reblogging the first part of my No Verra Sensible essay series. This part of the series was a tongue-in-cheek exploration of why so many Outlander fans (including myself) seemed to be âobsessedâ with Sam/ Jamie. If you have ever wondered why you are or have been preoccupied with Sam/ Jamie, you might want to give this tongue-in-cheek essay (broken into three subsections) a read. It might make you smile.
The Pages from my CO blog that index the major SamCait debunk and fandom posts have also been added to the website version of my new side blog. (Still, they can only be viewed on the website platform, not the mobile app.)Â
After I finish posting the rest of the No Verra Sensible series I will try to start posting the major SamCait debunks starting from the oldest SamCait debunked âreceiptsâ to the newest ones. It might be fun for some of you who werenât around in 2015 and 2016 to see how many of the SamCait receipts that are still in circulation in Shipperville were long ago debunked.
Oz theme. Yes, I chose an Oz theme for my new blog because once one immerses oneself in the Outlander fandom (especially on tumblr), one quickly discovers that one isnât âin Kansas anymore.â (And yes, if you look closely at my new header, you can see Iâve manipulated Murtaghâs/ Duncanâs face onto the Cowardly Lion, Claireâs/ Caitâs face onto Dorothy, Jamieâs/ Samâs face onto the Tin Man, and Rogerâs/ Rikâs face onto the Scarecrow. đ)
THE URL OF MY CONTEMPLATING OUTLANDER BLOG WILL REMAIN THE SAME BECAUSE IT WASNâT PRACTICAL TO CHANGE IT đ¤ˇ
Unfortunately, after I looked into it, I discovered that changing the contemplatingoutlander.tumblr.com URL isnât practical given how many posts I have with âread moreâ links and/ or that contain links to related posts. None of those links would work if the blog URL changed. I literally have hundreds of posts with links on my blog, some of which (according to Statcounter) are my most frequently viewed posts.
So this is what I decided to do...
SAME BLOG URL, DIFFERENT EMPHASIS, A LITTLE OUTLANDER, NO FANDOM DRAMA
Iâm keeping this blog URL contemplatingoutlander.tumblr.com. However, a long time ago I changed the blog name to Contemplating Life, the Universe & Outlander [emphasis added]. So Iâm going to keep that blog name but have the blog content be more in keeping with the emphasis in that name. In other words, the content on this blog is going to continue to broaden to include topics outside of Outlander (e.g., politics, art, fashion, cat gifs, etc.).
However, now that some of my shock from the recent drama has lessened, I think I can return to posting a bit about the Outlander books and show. I will also post cast photos, but my cast focus now will be more on Caitriona Balfe / Claire Fraser and David Berry/ Lord John Grey.
My CO blog will no longer discuss fandom issues or the starsâ personal lives. In other words, my Contemplating Outlander blog will not have any fandom drama on it anymore.Â
Hopefully that will be good news for those who have enjoyed this blog over the years but really didnât like to read about fandom drama.Â
I look forward to my CO blog being a fandom drama free zone. đ
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A PARTIAL LIST OF DEBUNKED SAMCAIT EXTREME SHIPPER (ES) MISINFORMATION/ LIES
The ES leaders wittingly or unwittingly keep spreading misinformation and lies about Sam and Cait over and over again until it becomes âcanonâ in Shipperville. Weâve seen them claim that a petite distillery worker was Cait, a cropped photo of a guy was Sam in Paris (until you see the uncropped version), and a short woman at a Dodgerâs game was Cait. Fuzzy photos are constantly misperceived, misinterpreted and listed as âreceiptsâ for the ship and âspeculationâ gets presented as âfact.â
People have a right to say what they want on their blogs but they donât have a right to spread misinformation and lies about real people, especially if some of that misinformation is then used by certain fans to attack the starsâ SOs or the stars themselves--and if some of the misinformation sets their followers up to place too much faith in a faux ship so that they are frequently disappointed and angry.
Below the cut is a partial list of SamCait extreme shipper (ES) misinformation/ lies (with links to debunking posts) that have been debunked over the years (in rough chronological order of the event and/ or the date of a major debunk).
[See more below the cut.]
2013
We DEBUNKEDÂ that Cait was had gone to PARIS with Sam in December 2013.
2014
We DEBUNKED that March 22, 2014 was a âspecial dayâ for Sam and Cait because it was a romantic anniversary for them.
2015
This POST refutes the claim that Sam and Cait led the fandom on in 2014-2015 through their flirty behavior. Yes they flirted a lot but they also presented the fandom with other information that they were not a couple.Â
We DEBUNKED the Abbie is a âfamily friendâ rumor and presented strong evidence that she had been his girlfriend. Furthermore, on 11.25.17 Abbie finally CONFIRMED that she used to date Sam, thereby totally debunking the ES belief that she was just âa family friend.â The context for this was a troll had gotten Abbie to change her avi. Another fan explained that the troll wanted the avi changed because the photo reminded ES of when she was dating Sam. She said getting rid of the avi makes it âlike you never dated Sam.â To which Abbie replied, âI think everyone knows I did. But that was then and this is now.â She ended up deleting the comment, most likely because she wanted to avoid trolls attacking her (and AT LEAST ONE unfortunately did).
We provided a different perspective (see POST) about Sam and Cait at Paleyfest on 03.12.15 that indicated that they were just good friends and colleagues. The ring on Caitâs finger wasnât a wedding ring--it was a prop. Furthermore, the shipper claims that Cait called Sam her âfavorite husbandâ and that Sam said âI love youâ were not confirmed by this writer (who didnât hear any of that no matter how many times she played the videos). People hear different things when stimuli is ambiguous. Â
We suggested the âringâ seen in a blurry screencap of Samâs hand during the LA Marathon o 03.15.15 was actually just an optical illusion or it had been photoshopped onto the original photo (see POST).Â
We DEBUNKED the Faux Abbie in Paris with another man photo (06.20.15).Â
We debunked the 07.11.15 Sam and Cait KISS IN FRONT OF THE WINDOW at SDCC2015 photo. The ANGLOPHILE CHANNEL also denied (on11.20.15) that they had seen a KISS between Sam and Cait at SDCC 2015.Â
This post DEBUNKS the belief that Sam and Cait attended a WWPJ concert on 08.27.15.
This post DEBUNKS the belief that Cait and Samâs mother Chrissie went to see a play together on August 8, 2015.
We provided evidence that all the women the ES claimed to be Cait at the Laophroaig anniversary event ON ISLAY (09.24.15) were NOT CAIT.Â
This POST debunks the lie that Tony is gay (10.18.15).
GRANTâS CLASSIC RESPONSE to a tweet about the Sam/ Cait wedding rumors debunked those rumors (11.18.15).Â
We debunked the rumors that Sam and Cait got married in late November or early December 2015. See POST1 (re: the âwedding kiltâ and the Thailand âhoneymoonâ rumors), POST2 (re: the London & the Rosslyn Chapel âweddingâ rumors), (POST3 (re: the âbachelor partyâ rumors), POST4 (re: the âcelebratory macaroonsâ), POST5 (re: Caitâs gold rings ), and POST6 (re: the Spanish âweddingâ rumors).
We thoroughly debunked the false claims about Sam being in COSTA RICA for New Yearâs Eve 2015. (The ES made that claim despite Nell Hudson, the Muay Thai gym guy and Sam himself saying Sam was in Thailand for NYE.)
2016
We debunked the rumor that Sam missed the PCAs on 01.06.16 because his flight was cancelled (which of course meant to the ES that he had to have been in Costa Rica).Â
We DEBUNKED that Sam and Caitâs mood changed that much from âFlirty Thursdayâ to the Friday when they did the KDS/ IFH denial video.
We debunked that Sam and Cait were lying during the KDS/ IFH denial video (01.08.16), and that Sam was anguished during the interview. We debunked the rumor that Sam was also DISTRAUGHT after the KDS/ IFH on 01.08.16.
We debunked the claim that it meant anything romantic that Sam put his ARM around Caitâs (chair or body) while sitting at the Golden Globes on 01.10.16.Â
We also debunked the claim that Tony STAYED with Cait's friends and Sam was up with her late the night before the Golden Globes.
We interpreted the HANTLERS picture differently than the ES did during SCOTCHTALK on 01.15.16.
It turned out that it was Samâs friend M and not Cait who had had a drunken late night GYM session with the boys on 02.28.16
We debunked a FAUXSAM photo in Paris in early March 2016 (which the ES assumed indicated he was in Paris with Cait). It also wasnât clear that it was Sam to whom his friend M was referring regarding having BAILED at the gym on 03.05.16. We DEBUNKED the rumor that Sam had put up a decoy gym photo and that he had left Glasgow (he was in Glasgow until 03.12.16). Samâs social media activity at that time also indicated that he was not with Cait (see this POST and this POST).
In March 2016, his POST and this POST debunked the belief that Cait said âSaaaaamâ during a love scene in The Reckoning. [On 08.30.17, this POST debunked a shipper saying that Cait had admitted that she had said âSaaaaamâ at the Highlanders 2 Outlander Fan Event.]
We DEBUNKED the claim that Cait gave Sam a kiss at the 04.07.16 Saks/ Outlander windows event. The woman who took the video of the alleged kiss also stated (on 07.01.16) that NO KISS OCCURRED.Â
We questioned the assumption of the ES that MacKenzie was in NC when Shatner supposedly met her at LUNCH at the horse show on June 5, 2016. We also proved that their rumor that Shatner tried to set Sam up with a âjournalistâ months after the lunch was false (it was a COMEDIAN and the original story came out on FEBRUARY 20, 2016--months before the lunch happened. The ES who first TWEETED about it apparently didnât bother to find out if the story had originally come out at an earlier date.
We DEBUNKED the lie that the 06.12.16 Sam/ MacKenzie winery photo was a PR set-up. (The woman who took it was NOT an Outlander producer and had co-produced one series for Starz two years before the photo was taken).
It was easy to prove that the petite woman certain ES claimed to be Cait at the 06.22.16 DODGERâS GAME was not Cait and that FauxSam was not Sam. Â
We DEBUNKED the lie that Cait was PREGNANT in 2016 and had Samâs baby in July 2016 and that she was pregnant again in 2018. We also DEBUNKED the lie that changes in her nipples/breasts indicated that she had been pregnant sometime between The Wedding and The Printshop episodes.Â
We DEBUNKED Mr. Lemon on 08.16.16. Furthermore, on 05.06.18 Cait herself DEBUNKED Mr. Lemon when she liked a tweet saying that Tony brought her the lemon for her tea âwith a happy face a a hug drawn on it.â
We DEBUNKED that MacKenzie and Billy were still dating in early autumn 2016.
We debunked the FAUXHEAD SAM IN PARIS (10.05.16), which the ES touted as being Sam when all one has to do is see the UNCROPPED PHOTO to know it wasnât.Â
The ES claim that the Novel Adventures woman was in cahoots with a PR conspiracy centered around Sam being in North Carolina in late November 2016 was DEBUNKED on 12.01.16 by the NOVEL ADVENTURES woman herself.Â
We DEBUNKED the Sam with Cait in Ireland rumor for Christmas Eve/ Day 2016.
2017
We DEBUNKED the false claim that Mackenzie wasnât in the Alps with Sam in early January 2017.  Recently on 02.14.18, the man who owns a restaurant that Sam and MacKenzie visited in Switzerland posted a photo of the two of them as part of a Valentineâs day montage on his IG. It was also clear from a photo he posted on 01.28.18 of pictures of celebrities in his restaurant that that photo had been up for some time--probably from when Sam and MacKenzie were there in January 2017.)
We DEBUNKED the Faux Sam with Cait at the 01.21.17 Womenâs March.Â
The following are a series of posts that debunk the T2 narrative of Sam and Cait. This POST shows how Sam wasnât whistling at Cait during the T2 premiere. This POST shows how other romantic co-stars are asked to pose the way Sam and Cait did at the T2 premiere. This POST shows how Sam and Cait posed in numerous ways for the photographers (based on their directions) and how most poses only lasted probably a few seconds. This POST debunks the claim that they were holding hands at T2. This POST shows gifs of Cait and Tony at the T2 premiere.
We DEBUNKED Caitâs famous FIST BUMP PHOTO (02.04.17) where a fist that is too small to be Samâs and which is missing some important markings was being touted by ES as being Samâs fist.Â
We DEBUNKED the claim that MacKenzie started to date Jon Fletcher because she went on a walk in the desert with him and they both posted about it on March 12 & 13, 2017. Jon was dating Shantel VanSanten at the time.
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART I: There is strong evidence that MacKenzie was in SA with Sam in April and May 2017. (Sorry, there is no one debunking post for the ES claims about MacKenzieâs visit, so here are some separate posts that address the whole thing.) MacKenzie posted an IG Story from Heathrow airport indicating she is picking up an international connecting flight (04.13.17). She also followed an actress who works in SA whom she appears to have met on the plane (although the ES try to work this woman into a conspiracy).
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART II: Sam posted a picture of himself on 04.15.17 from Stellenbosch that MacKenzie liked. She later posts a picture from Stellenbosch (04.16.17).  Nic Rasenti, an Outlander actor and trainer at Samâs gym who organized Samâs birthday party, liked a collage of Sam and MacKenzie that was posted on IG on 04.18.17.Â
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART III: There is some confusion about whether MacKenzie went back to LA on Samâs birthday because her friend Paydin posted a photo of MacKenzie on the Nagin IG on 04.26.17 saying they were planning a photoshoot ânext week.â (In a recent post the ES claim she wrote âlater this weekâ and changed it but that was incorrect, it was ânext week.â The caption was changed to âweâre planning a shoot very soon.â) The photo posted on the Nagini IG on 04.26.17 and the IG story on 04.30.17 turned out to be an old photoshoot from Sept. 2016.
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART IV: MacKenzie posted a number of photos from South Africa including one that suggests she was still there on Samâs birthday (April/ May 2017). It appears that MacKenzie was at the birthday party on 04.30.17. A chef who apparently cooked part of Samâs birthday party celebration (on his actual birthday) tweeted Sam and MacKenzie on 05.05.17 to ask if they liked the âtoastiesâ that he prepared for the celebration. (This was further clarified through other tweets.)
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART V: Further proof that MacKenzie was with Sam on his birthday comes from a fan who took a photo (posted 04.30.17) with Sam in SA on his birthday wrote on Samâs 07.30.17 IG post: âI met both Sam and Mackenzie - @mackenziemauzy was just absolutely lovely, so friendly, kind and beautiful beyond words. They looked genuinely happy together, and even if I hadnât known who they both were, I wouldâve thought they were genuinely in love and quite besotted with each other. Iâve seen them together with my own eyes, when they had no idea that anyone around them knew who they were and could see that this relationship has absolutely nothing to do with PR.â [emphasis added]Â
MACKENZIE & SAM IN SA PART VI: Cait posts a belated birthday celebratory picture of herself, some crew members and Sam and MacKenzie where it is clear that MacKenzie and Sam are a couple. Sam âlikesâ the picture (05.02.17). We debunked the ES claim that MacKenzie was photoshopped into that picture. Finally, Nic Rasentiâs girlfriend Nicole (who probably met Sam and MacKenzie at the party) tweeted this on 05.04.17 (after probably seeing MacKenzie be attacked on IG): âhave you ever read the comments on pictures of famous men's partners/spouses on SM!? wow. Just horrifying. women are so fucking mean.â [emphasis added]
At the end of July 2017 the ES claimed that Chris Albrecht went to college with MacKenzieâs father but IT WAS DISCOVERED that they went to different colleges and are 12 years apart in age.
We DEBUNKED the SamCait narrative that Cait was upset that Sam brought MacKenzie to the EW SDCC 2017 party.Â
We DEBUNKED the ES claim that MacKenzie wasnât on the helicopter on 07.30.17 with Sam in Budapest.
On 08.30.17, this POST debunked a shipper saying that Cait had admitted that she had said âSaaaaamâ during a during a love scene in The Reckoning at the Highlanders 2 Outlander Fan Event. [Previously, in March 2016, his POST and this POST debunked the belief that Cait said âSaaaaam.â ]
We DEBUNKED the ES claim that Sam was never in SOUTHERN FRANCE with MacKenzie in mid-September 2017. Â
We DEBUNKED the FAUXSAM with Cait at the 09.13.17 Delpozo NYFW show.
We debunked the claim that Sam was really with Cait on 09.23.17 at Newark airport. There was a photo of Sam with a fan and a tiny picture in the background of a woman with dark hair worn in a loose bun that certain fans were claiming was Cait. But you could not see her face and her hair did not look like any style that Cait typically wears. There was no selfie of the fan with Cait. In addition it appears that Cait was in England on 09.19.17 (based on the tenner tweet) and in Paris on 09.24.17 based on an IG Story. So why would Cait fly from NYC to England back to NYC and then to Paris in a little over a weekâs time? It makes no sense.
We REBUTTED some of the âcompelling evidenceâ of a major ES for the ship on 11.22.17 including personal variables, inconsistences in their behavior, times when they are on social media around the same time, time spent together, and âfluidity and synchronicity in language and nonverbals.â
We REBUTTED the rumor that MacKenzie was dating Jimmy Graham from late fall to early winter 2017/ 2018.Â
2018
On 01.07.18 People Magazine confirmed in an exclusive announcement (complete with a quote from Cait) that Cait and Tony had gotten engaged âover the break.â
Caitâs mother confirmed in a Northern Sound radio interview on 01.08.18 that Cait got engaged to Tony on Dec. 28, 2017. âShe got engaged on the 28th I think it was. Eh, Tony actually rang us (chuckles) the night before. Eh, I had been wondering, you know, coming up to Christmas would be a possibility but he waited until after Christmas and they were in Australia for Christmas and he proposed to her there. So weâre thrilled for her. It could either be um a little quiet one somewhere but I donât know what the plans are. We havenât talked about it yet. Iâm dying for the chat about it all when she does get back to Scotland.â
We DEBUNKED the claims that MacKenzie was in Scotland with family for a beer trade event or that it was a setup that a photo was taken of the two of them waiting for a taxi on 01.27.18 outside the Celtic Connections Festival in Glasgow. We also debunked the ES claim that MacKenzie was photoshopped into that picture.
Here is a logical explanation for apartment-gate and kitchen-gate. Sam had stated in at least one interview that he bought a house outside of Glasgow. So it is possible that when Caitâs place was put on the public market, Sam didnât initially think of buying it. But maybe he gave up his flat in the city and the more he commuted the more the found it inconvenient and finally he decided to buy it. itâs also possible that Sam just loved that apartment and so he bought it. (My parentsâ neighbors loved their house and bought it when it was up for sale--so it happens.) BTW, thereâs no way that anyone outside of this fandom would have ever thought that people could figure out that Sam had bought Caitâs place based on the two photos he posted. It was because fans blew up small parts of the photos and cyberstalked to match them to Caitâs apartment and location that anyone figured it out. So Sam didnât buy an apartment just to âleadâ fans to believe he was living with Cait.đ  (ADDENDUM: Please note that a few months after all of this, certain ES did claim that they knew that Sam had bought Caitâs old apartment--but they also knew that Cait had already moved in November 2017 to her new apartment.)
This POST explains how the phenomenon of pareidolia explains how certain ES believe they heard Cait say that she and Sam lived together when she was talking to Karen Gillan at the Roland Mouret Fashion Show on 02.18.18 and nonshippers heard them talking about âtouringâ and some people didnât hear anything discernible at all.
This post DEBUNKS the belief that Sam and MacKenzieâs photo at the Jimmy Kimmel Oscar afterparty on 03.04.18 was photoshopped.
This post DEBUNKS the interpretation that Sam did a ârevealâ of his relationship with Cait at the LA Times interview on 03.19.18 with his âweâre togetherâ comment.
Samâs hand placement on Caitâs red dress at the STARZâs Outlander FYC Event at Linwood Dunn Theater on 03.18.18 was put in perspective by this POST.
This post DEBUNKS an ES fuzzy gif that seemed to show Sam grabbing Caitâs butt at the BAFTA TV Awards on 05.13.18. This whole episode was also put into perspective in this POST.
This post DEBUNKS all the rumors that MacKenzie was trolling the fandom and posting fake âinnuendoâ during the past couple of years.
This POST and this POST provide an alternative explanation for Samâs exchange with a fan outside of Jimmy Kimmel, including the meaning of his having signed a shippery collage.Â
2019-2020
April 19 - April 21, 2019: We debunked the ES âcoffee stalkerâ claims that Sam and Cait spent Easter weekend together (April 19th through 21st). See POST1, POST2, POST3, (BTW, a former shipper commented in a post that Samâs apartment was being renovated at the timing that the âcoffee stalkerâ took her photos. See POST.) This is also a debunk that Tony was manipulated into a photo of Sam with Cait at the airport that weekend (see POST).
May 17, 2019: We debunked the ES claim that the photo of Cait and Tony in Somerset on May 17th was staged (see POST1, POST2).
June 17, 2019: We debunked one of the many SCÂ âsecret childâ claims (see POST).
Aug. 17, 2019: We debunked the claim that the cozy photo of Hannah and Sam hanging with Outlander crew in Scotland was only due to the filming of Geneva flashbacks for season 5. This POST also provides a lot of information that supports the possibility that Sam and Hannah had some sort of a relationship.
CAIT AND TONYâS MARRIAGE: We debunked the claim that Cait and Tony werenât married on August 10, 2019 in a series of posts.Â
Aug. 10-12, 2019: This POST shows evidence from family, friends, the church, and the florist that the wedding occurred on August 10, 2019.
Aug. 10 & 15, 2019: POST1, POST2, and POST3 discuss how Cait and Tony were married in a Roman Catholic ceremony and they reference the 08.15.19 People and Town & Country articles about the wedding. ;
Aug. 15, 2019: This POST is about Diana Gabaldonâs 08.15.19 Facebook congratulations to Cait and Tony on their marriage and this POST is Dianaâs confirmation that she had spoken to Cait directly that morning about the wedding.
Sept. 8 & 9, 2019: This POST shows photos of Cait and Tony wearing their wedding rings at various TIFF events including the Chanel & Variety Female Filmmaker Dinner, an interview with The Hollywood Reporter, and the the Ford v Ferrari premiere.
The wedding planner. This POST discusses how Cait had apparently been planning her wedding at least as far back as 10.12.18 (based on something on the wedding plannerâs IG page). This POST provided confirmation from the wedding planner in Bridebook and Nearly Weds that she had in fact planned Cait and Tonyâs wedding.
Nov. 3, 2019: This POST discusses how Caitâs wearing her wedding ring set at the BAFTA Scotland Awards is literally symbolic of her wearing her vows on her left ring finger. Tony was also filmed with her at the awards.
Nov. 4, 2019: In the Is it just me? podcast with Jo Elvin and James Williams, Cait refers to her âhusbandâ twice and mentions that she got engaged in Australia (see POST).
Nov. 20, 2019: This POST discusses a tweet by Cait during a Q & A where she acknowledges that she got married in response to a question that mentions Tony.
Jan. 21 & Feb. 2, 2020: Here are two interviews where Cait acknowledges she recently got married during filming: Interview 1 (dated 01.21.20--translated in this POST) was with Margaret Gardiner for rooi rose and Interview 2 (dated 02.02.20) was with Ruben V. Nepales for inquirer.net. In both articles, Cait made it clear that her husband was someone who wasnât Sam.
Feb. 10, 2020: This POST shows Cait posing with Tony on 02.10.20 on the red carpet of the Oscars. This is a typical way celebrities acknowledge their spouses or serious romantic relationships
Feb. 15, 2020: Theresa Corigliano discusses in Check Your Local Listings how Cait indicated that her husband âmanages bandsâ--a direct reference to Tony (who manages The Fratellis--see POST).
March 20, 2020: Cait tweeted that her âhubby made  [the] pastaâ that was seen in her bowl during the IG Live Q & A on March 19th.
April 2, 2020: Cait finally mentions Tonyâs name in an anecdote while being interviewed by Lauren Lyle. (For a transcript of what Cait said, see this POST.)
April 24, 2020: In a Reserved Magazine IG Live interview Cait mentions (about 9:57 into the video) how when fans âattackâ her âhusbandâ she gets âsuper hurt.â
2021
April 2021: Several fans ordered public records of C & Tâs marriage certificate and posted it. It is real. The ES tried to prove it was false. Their claims were debunked. After a while some of them came around to believing it was real but they still thought the marriage was in name only (although they keep ignoring the fact that C & T were married in a RC ceremony--people donât have âfake marriagesâ that are blessed by the church).Â
August 18, 2021 Cait announced the birth of her first child (and of course it was with Tony, as was made clear by her friends and colleagues who congratulated both of them). We also debunked some of their attempts to prove that it was Sâs fingers in the photo of the baby (which some are using to claim that S is the ârealâ father. đ¤Śââď¸Â ) Finally, we debunked the claims that C & T could not produce a blonde baby.
August 2021: We debunked the email that an ES leader was using to claim that C & T were divorcing.
November 16, 2021: Marc Myers in an interview with Cait for The Wall Street Journal Quotes Cait as saying:Â âToday, my husband, Tony, and I and our son are slightly nomadic. We split our time between Glasgow and London. When Iâm working on âOutlander,â weâre in Glasgow.â [emphasis added] We also debunked the punctuation misinterpretation of the ES regarding this quote.
2022-2023
August 2022 to present: Extreme shippers blew up video of the funeral mass for Câs father and mistook Câs older brother for S and thought that a woman who vaguely had Sâs motherâs hair was there. They also later claimed that a photo published in local papers of C, T, & their baby was somehow photoshopped. Over the past couple of years, we have debunked these outrageous claims. (See POST 1, POST 2, POST 3)Â
May 15 2023: We debunked the claim that the âboy on the horseâ was one of C & Câs âsecret boos.â
June 14, 2023: Another debunk of the âmultiple booâ theory.
Unfortunately, the hardcore ES are now full tinhatters and donât seem to ever want to give up the ship.Â
Sadly, the fans who follow the hardcore ES blogs so want to believe in the ship that they never bother to check what their leaders claim. Thatâs unfortunate. Because wittingly or unwittingly their leaders spread a lot of misinformation about Sam, Cait and their SOs.