So... Lets put things in some kind of perspective. I have had constant harassment from someone day in day out for the past few days and her excessive control of my character has been more then god modding.  I have has guilt tripping when I have been asleep ( i’m UK based and this person wasn't)  strange thing  was that this particular person seems to have a knack of picking male characters to cling to and then when things dont go her way she then causes a shit ton of grief. She is the ultimate gaslighter and manipulator and sooner rather then later it will become obvious to some if not all within the group. 

I have a whole file which I will be uploading to prove my innocence over this situation and to show this person as the vindictive person she truly is.  Everything about this situation was highly mishandled and I am disappointed at the lack of help I got over this. It also turns out I wasn't the first to be treated in this manner.

His what happened this weekend. 

My character was having real trouble adjusting to the fact he was seeing someone who in all sense and purposes had manipulated him into being in this semi relationship ( I couldn't call it a ship as it was more a case of this person forcing the ship) In my characters bio it states my character has lived alone for a long time. I took that as he is still a little conflicted in the way that he is unsure if he wants to be alone or if he wants to be with someone, Anyway, He has been away for the weekend and is incredibly tired and comes home and tells the lady he is “Dating.” That the date that had on Monday he would like to postpone  till Wednesday. She then throws abuse at him telling him he is mistreating her when she manipulated the whole situation when he had repeatedly told her that he wasn't sure that he wanted a relationship. 

Moving on, The characters have an argument resulting in them no longer talking. Thats the last I thought of it until it became ooc. 

Supposedly several people came to her about the way he was treating her.- can I just clarify, none came to me at all! if they had I would have explained everything with all the chatzy information and files details of proof of this characters forceful behaviour, May I also state at this point, if my character was a female and her character was male this would be classed as harassment, So when pressed in the ooc about people talking about me, this person quickly stops the conversation. funny that.

The character is needy and spiteful and cruel. she gives men a saviour complex and when they don’t fit her criteara she then is hell bent on destroying them, like she did with my character. she god mods and then tries to not only manipulate your character but also tries to manipulate you ooc. which is something that should be stopped, hence the reason i am writing this. She does gaslight, she does manipulate, she does play the victim and cause unnecessary stress for everyone including admin with her constant ooc chat. and if you want to know how it was dealt with? simple. I was kicked out for calling her out. I have had endless drama with this person and I hope to go no one else does because she plays this helpless victim but at the same time is desperate to make things all about her almost making you have a 1x1 when you are trying to keep up with the group.