#rules pages

🌴 Its been just over 2 years since I was called out. I didn't realize my mistakes at first. But 1 year into the future I've come to terms with and understood the error of my past ways, and added a disclaimer about my callout in my rules page so everyone can be aware. In it I apologized for all my mistakes and fuck ups and acknowledge every single issue raised. (Most of my callout is legitimate, but there are a couple egregious false accusations.) And guess what people are doing 2 years later? STILL spreading my callout to anyone who rps with me through anonymous. I have put so much effort into changing my mannerisms and how I respond to things, and even got help through counseling. But it's like whoever insists on spreading it DOES NOT want to accept that I have grown and changed (because NOW I can look at some of my past actions and go 'wow I was horrible to this person.') It's this sort of bull crap behavior that makes me believe callout culture is 100% flawed, end of story.

All Ocs are equal but some Ocs are more equal then others I guess 💀

🌴 having a rule ‘no deceased face claims because it’s disrespectful’ is way more disrespectful than the face claims . you’re saying as soon as a person dies nobody can see them anywhere , or show pics of them , or use them in collages , creative writing , and tell me , how does that translate into watching their movies or old plays or shows ? sounds sus to me , you just want to be the drawer and enforcer of lines that nobody cares about but you . my fave actors were my heros growing up and i keep using their fcs to honor them , they haven’t died to me in spirit . ‘disrespecting them’ please . you can pry my face claims from my cold dead hands .

🌴 This is a tough pill to swallow but I'm going to say it; not everyone is okay with you projecting your personal issues into roleplaying threads and yes, that includes identity and race issues because they aren't exempt from the list. This doesn't mean that we're policing what you write on your own blog, or questioning the validity of what you're going through, it means that we are not all comfortable with you doing it in interactions with us because like it or not, people have boundaries. ‘But these issues are real!’ Yes they are, but this is roleplay; a hobby for many of us, and we come here to relax and unwind from the stress of our daily lives. We don't come here to be bombarded with more stress, especially when plenty of us deal with those same issues that you're shoving at us, but not all of us are comfortable disclosing it. Everyone copes differently and forcing your method on someone else isn't mature or fair. If those issues are part of your muse? Put a disclaimer in your rules so people can decide whether or not to follow.

🌴 I swear, the audacity of rpers recently to never read someone's rules before following and get upset when their boundaries are crossed. The pot calling the kettle black.

🌴 My rules state I don't condone and callout culture. You followed me with "pro-callout" and passive-aggressive insults written all over your blog. These types of roleplayers act offended and write several posts how their boundaries were violated, yet they can't extend the same courtesy for others. Hypocrisy at its finest.

🌴 The red flags in rules pages nowadays are astounding. They have actual death threats and wishing you're better off dead if you write the infamous dark themes this hellsite is bent over. Put that energy in volunteering at a local organization if they want to protect real, living breathing victims than shitting pants over fiction.