Fun extra fact: if you do manage to cross class up the way, some of the things on the left can be perceived by people higher up as 'funny personal quirks' rather than class indicators - speaking from experience!
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Fun extra fact: if you do manage to cross class up the way, some of the things on the left can be perceived by people higher up as 'funny personal quirks' rather than class indicators - speaking from experience!

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This week's guest is Ruby Payne from Dirt in the Gate Movies and Grindfest, sharing with us her favourite films to watch with an audience.
Dirt in the Gate Movies specialise in 35mm events held throughout the year and their 3 day Grindfest event is a celebration of genre film from the world over utilising a hybrid mix of repertory traditional celluloid film and new DCP presentations. Grindfest 2026 is being held on 18 Sep 2026 - 20 Sep 2026 at the Regent Cinema, Christchurch.
Show Brave Men Podcast, Ep BraveMen S3E91: Dr. Ruby Payne - Fighting Poverty - Setting Men Free - May 3, 2021
Hidden Rules Among (financial) Classes
From "A Framework for Understanding Poverty" by Ruby Payne
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This is from "A Framework for Understanding Poverty" by Ruby Payne. She does a really nice job of explaining it in readable simple terms. It is not a scholarly work, and makes huge generalizations.
I've found it to be very helpful for middle class people who are working outside their class (poverty or wealthy) and are struggling to understand their clients behavior. Why did that rich dude/rich lady totally blow you off? Because connections matter, and you don't have any. Why does that person spend all their money on clothes/food/beer even though eviction is coming in three weeks? Because time is in the moment (not thinking about the future) and eviction is fate, the system sets them up to fail.
Many middle class people see their narrative as the only potential narrative (the American Dream is a middle class narrative), so its really helpful for them to understand that their values are not shared by everyone.
It is not very helpful to apply these principles to race (and race is usually involved in the US), nor is it helpful to state these generalizations out-loud when working with those in a different class, because the values of poverty and wealth are not the American standard values, people are often embarrassed by them (i.e. rich people won't talk about wealth, even though it motivates everything).
My big day.
Ruby Payne's books on the psychology of education changed my life.
After 13 years I see her in person today-- along w/ 300 other teachers that either don't know me or don't much care for me.
I have GOT to summon the courage to go up and say hello in a room full of people.
I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.

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Nobody gives a shit what teachers think. Reformers, politicians, school boards, principals, students, parents... none of 'em. Which is why I decided to start this blog, where I will be delivering MY two cents, regardless of whether you've asked.
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