Moira’s taking over my fyp @ tiktok and i’m not complaining. Napanood ko na buong concert niya kaka-scroll. Hahaha chariz.

Naalala kong naghihintay pa ako ng Studio version nung wedding vow (Promise) niya. Hanggang ‘tong si koya mong Jason, nagloko. Wala pa ring studio version pero meron nang Rewritten Vows (Unreleased song).

Wedding Vow - Promise (Moira Dela Torre) Through battles won & fears overcome I found a faithful one Through highs & lows you will never be alone Forever & always My forever & always Forever & always I love you my home

Rewritten Vows (Moira Deal Torre) Through battles won & fears overcome I'll find a faithful one Through highs & lows I will never be alone For l know that someday After all of this heartache I know God heard me pray That I'll still find My way home

Nung lumalabas palang yung hinuha na maghihiwalay na sila, chineck ko agad yung socmed nila, tapos naalala ko nag-story pa si madam Moira para humupa yung issue then after a week or two, ayun totoo na, hiwalay na sila. Ang lungkot sobra dahil matuturing silang mag-partner na ping-pray ang isa’t isa, naghintayan, friends to lovers trope, taga ng panahon.

Karamihan ng naiimagine ko for myself since I was young, yung standard o kumbaga formula for a long lasting relationship nakita sa kanila (noon) at ito, sobrang nakakalungkot na it ended like this.

Pero ayun, alam kong walang perfect na relationship at iba-iba ang story na nakalaan sa atin. Naniniwala ako na ang purpose ng marriage ay to make us holy, yung happiness ay byproduct nalang rin of caring for our spouse/partner & future family.

Oo, we live in a broken world pero walang magsasabi sakin na kalooban ng Diyos na may masaktan ng ganito dahil sa kapabayaan, maling desisyon at pag give-in sa temptation ng mga taong di tumupad sa ipinangako nila sa harap ng Diyos at sa altar.

Sa kabila ng lahat ng ito, I hope that we still find it in ourselves na worthy tayo of love at maging capable pa rin tayo na magbigay nito. I hope that we may still see God’s faithfulness, love, care and comfort in times that the people we love and trust the most fails us and broke their promises.

I'm going to leave this verse & prayer here:

“Lord, don’t hold back your tender mercies from me. Let your unfailing love and faithfulness always protect me.”

-Psalms‬ ‭40‬:‭11‬ ‭

Ika nga ni Moira, “Pinapaubaya ko na sa Kaniya” Posted this at my Facebook account Tuesday, February 7, 2023 at 12:38PM https://www.facebook.com/richaritz/posts/pfbid02qPgmgEyNeYzLsS389Ys5TgrwgPKWoWYGQ7D5HvpKbs7WCQwfxkt5LaCskxwE2NxTl

"Healthy relationships are created, not found. You don't just magically find a healthy relationship, you sit with the uncomfortable conversation and create healthy boundaries with these people."

This is true as far as it goes. But not everyone you meet & invest your effort, time and emotions will necessarily be someone you could have a happy, healthy, & long term. Sometimes the Big Uncomfortable Relationship Talks lead to a strengthened and deepened relationship. Sometimes they lead to deciding you aren't compatible in the way you wanted to be, for whatever reason(s) and that can be okay too when it happens, even if it takes a long time to feel okay about it.