Hi sorry about pestering you with this conversation happening in your ask box, feel free to ignore this ask entirely, I'm just autistic about this and wanna explain mspec/male lesbians to your anons aha
Ok first off, this has already been said, but OTHER PEOPLE'S IDENTITIES ARE NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. IF YOU SEE SOMEONE WHO'S MSPEC OR MALE LESBIAN, JUST LEAVE EM ALONE, MAN
Alright, now that's out the way let's talk about
Let's clear it up mspec is most commonly used to mean multi-spec, so attraction to multiple genders (like bi, pan etc). This means mspec lesbian includes bi and pan lesbians! So how does this work? Well there's a lot of reasons someone could be both mspec and lesbian. This includes (but is not limited to)
using the SAM model (so being homosexual biromantic or vice versa)
being abro (attraction changes, so one day exclusively attracted to women, some days both men and women)
having a gender preference (so being pan but having a preference towards women)
using a more historical definition of the term lesbian (queer attraction towards women. believe it or not, the term "bisexual lesbian" has been around as long as the term "bisexual" has been around!).
For me personally (pan gay), I'm pan but with a preference for men, but since I'm aroace and basically never experience attraction, that means any time I have it's been towards men!
Mspec does not mean masculine spectrum, but that doesn't make male lesbians, masculine lesbians or lesboys any less real! A lesbian can be male for any number of reasons including (but not limited to):
being butch (some butches identify as men as well)
being a transfem lesbian (still identifying somewhat with being male)
being nonbinary (when do nonbinary people stop being non-men? Less than 50% masculinity? How do you measure that? What about genderfluid or multigender lesbians?)
And uhmmm yea I think that's about all I have to say about them? If anyone has further questions, come to my inbox so we can leave this one alone lmao. Anyway again sorry for barging into your inbox about this, I just know a BUNCH about the topic and wanted to explain to the confused anons! Feel free to. not post it if you're sick of this topic lmao!
You're not bothering me dw this shit is interesting as hell