Please do not be mean and justify it with Islam
Please do not criticize/make fun of anyone’s life choices and justify it with Islam.
We are all trying to improve and all you are doing is bring others down. Sometimes they can’t wear looser dresses, wear hijab, pray all prayers in time , give up on a relationship from the get go . Sometimes we have very low Imaan. Life is a process, and everyone’s process is different.
You do not know what they struggle with, you do not know where they started from and you certaily do not know what they will end up to be.
There is a way of reminding people of the straight path, but please know you should first and foremost remind yourself of it !
Look at yourself ans ask , “ Is there anything else I should improve ? “ If you are the embodiment of perfection then, congratulations.
But if you are not, - and you aren’t, please focus on yourself first and choose to uplift people instead of bringing them down.
Ignore the fact that maybe they didn’t dress loosely enough, and focus on the fact that hey- today they wear a scarf and wow - that scarf is actually so beautiful!
That person that you dont consider “ appropriate “ , might be way closer to Allah than you have ever been.
Your words can be very hurful and cand affect people very badly. Don’t be the reason why someone gives up even on trying.
This advice is for myself first and foremost.
