#respecfulparenting

✨Parenting with Spirit Guides II✨ best thing about pickup is hearing their stories about the day, seeing and listening to what they’ve made. I ask what inspired them, what they were thinking and how it makes me feel - happy or cheerful. rarely do I say how proud I am. (I am super proud by the way!) ✨ why I don’t say I’m proud - I want to encourage them to create, explore and play for themselves, that does not involve my opinion. We want them to do because they’re interested or curious about it. this then translates into an adult who creates and decides based on their own thoughts and opinions. not someone who seeks approval to feel that it’s a success. This is one of the many reasons why I parent with my Spirit Guides. So that I know better. And I can do better. This is a message from my Spirit Guides: “We understand that you may think that guiding your children to find their purpose in life is simple. It isn’t easy, but if you throw it all at them - a chance to study well, learn all that they can, ballet, play the piano and martial arts. All of these will set them up on a path for success. But in actual fact, it is the little things that will set them up. How they react in the face of disappointment, how do they attempt to fit into a new environment and find their own space. How will they decide on a new adventure, what new experiences should they choose. What shall they learn? All of these are very important life skills that a child should learn to grow in them. As these are the life skills that will guide them through life. What you do when you face challenges determines who you are. And you would want the same for your children. This is why you learn to do better. To guide them well. This is why you are here. We are complete.” I’m having one more free session on Thursday, 3 Nov 2022 11am AWST. If you find the answers to be useful, I’d appreciate a testimonial. It will be replayed for the week. Please DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkNtAFDpD4o/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

my free-spirited kids. 💕 they remind me not to be a perfect parent. but a human one who loves them. 💕 If you are always perfect, your children will strive to be perfect too. And we have learned that it’s not a good thing at all. When you focus on being perfect, getting it right, and… you don’t achieve it, this leads to you feeling like a failure, not believing in your self-worth. A waste of time and effort. In children, it looks like they’re not wanting to try. Because they could get it wrong, or not win and make you proud. It undermines their confidence so much when they think of their achievements only by the end result. The journey is far more important than the end result. The journey is what shapes you and prepares you for more ahead. The end result is part of the journey. But not all of it. ✨ We talk and support each other with parenting topics like these in my group “Raising Confident Kids”. Come join us ✌️ Link in bio. #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjetOM0p4T2/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=