To clarify, there is NOTHING pathetic about a woman wanting sex. It's just pathetic When she keeps throwing herself at the same man who seems fairly nonchalant and uninterested and keeps repeatedly turning her down.
I'm just letting you know rn, if you keep sending me anymore asks about this, i will just ignore them. It's pointless.
Obviously Chuck does not want Blair, so it is the perfect reason for him to give her his ring which is a promise of a life together. He wants to spend the entire rest of his life with a woman he does not want.
anyway. i'm not going to expand on this much. Believe what you will but canon is canon and even if Chuck never expressed his desire for Blair verbally. it would still be fucking obvious that he does want her. It's in his touches. They aren't suggestive because he has to control himself but they are sensual. He looks at her a certain way. he is in love with her and he wants her and her, him.
6x01 -- I need to walk it off ( after he and Blair had the discussion in the limo)
6x02 -- No sexual advances were made
6x03 -- I would love to spend the whole day in bed with you but i know an IV can be quite the hindrance (when he visited Blair at the atelier and asked to be her minion)
6x04 -- hold that visual (When Blair described the scene of the in the bathtub)
He's never rejected her. He's always told her how much he desired her and then he reminds them of the necessity to keep the pact because they actually want their relationship to succeed and not having sex helps their focus off of each other.
If Chuck was all hot on Blair's tail, you would be calling him a filthy animal. And now that he's trying to behave himself and focusing their attention elsewhere now he's rejecting her. he'll never do right by you.
And Blair can't even desire her own boyfriend/fiancé in private without coming off looking like a disgraceful PATHETIC woman. Did you like her much better when she was running around having sex in public while she was still married and jeopardizing her family's entire fortune very irresponsibly very close to the passing of her child which she did not mourn? Is that the ideal Blair for you.
The only time Blair made any insistence on her and Chuck having sex was 6x03. She hadn't done so in 6x01 or 6x02 or 6x04. She only described a potential scenario involving them enjoying each other. She did not insist he come over and have sex with her and he did not reject her.
this is my final word on the subject.