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You never have to chase what wants to stay.~Unk . . . . . . . . . .

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Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.

Claudia Puig of USA Today gives this delightful movie 3 1/2 stars out of 4. She says “Theres no chance of a happy ending, but its tender mercies speak volumes.” I concur.

After the two most recent posts on victims participating in terrible relationships, its clear this is true for both Steve Carell & Kiera Knightly’s characters. Her boyfriend uses her as a human shield when bullets fly during riots & looting and he realizes he and his wife have had a terrible pretend relationship for way too long. One of the best things about this movie is that they don’t seek the false energy of being a perpetrator to heal.

In fact, they are both truly good to each other in lovely acts of kindness. She finds the address of his high school love in a drawer and does not lie or conceal it. She does whats hard & right and gives it to him. She is not selfish and sacrifices for him to pursue what matters to him despite her own feelings.

He puts her on a plane to fly & see her family on another continent, despite his own growing feelings of affection. This is not catering but an act of generosity to help her get what she wants. How rare to see real acts of love on the screen. You feel the tenderness of the caring in the relationship radiating to those of us lucky enough to be in the audience.

The only annoying part was the lack of substance to who Dodge was. He’s so constricted as a human being that with 21 days left to live he shows up at work for 2 of those 21 days. Routine is simply no excuse for not making the most of your own end of days.

I asked my husband why it was believable that they were together. He said because they didn’t have enough days left for him to be boring. So just being good & attentive was enough for her.

The movie also asks you to reflect on how you spend your time on the planet. Would you want to be with, the one who you are with now? We may not have an asteroid headed our way but we all have to have an end to our days…

“…you turn 60…(and) life grows in value because of your leave-taking with regard to it. Not very significant things suddenly look poignant and charming. This particular period of my life is full of daily novelty. That turns out to be worth a great deal.” Martin Amis NYT 6/24/12

Well, a Kenyan man who was dumped by his girlfriend is currently the laughter of the town after screenshots of him begging her to come back to him went viral. The remorseful man explains how his life has changed ever since his ex-lover dumped her.

Check out the screenshots.

Dear men, would you do such in case she decides to walk away?

Masaibu Ya Ndoa! ‘My Mboch Opened The Door For My Husband At Night While Almost Naked!’ Cries Out Kenyan Woman

Well, screenshots of a conversation between a woman and his “lover”, who dumped her after having sex with her, has gone viral. In the conversation, the man clearly tells the lady that he has moved on and that he no longer needs her.

But why treat women like garbage after “using” them? Anyway, this is not new, Kenyan men are used to this. They always dump women after tasting their honey pot. So ladies, be careful when you meet these hungry hyenas, their looks are always deceiving! In short, do not catch feelings for a dog that has eyes on every b****

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Don't let something that's long gone continue to control you. It's time to let it go.

Well, a Nigerian man has sent tongues wagging across the globe after he married a plus size woman. Many are still in shock after comparing the sizes of the two. The lady who seems to have been rejected by many could not hide her joy but took to social media to express his joy showering his lover with a strong love message.

“A Kojo Prince

You have always guided me when I was wrong. You came into my life and totally changed my world. I have lost total control of myself. My heart does not belong any more to me. It’s given away to you. My baby, my heart, my world you are the best I’ve ever had????”

She wrote. This is a message to all fat women out there  who think that they cannot find someone. God has a plan for everyone. So if you are the size of a hippo, worry not. Your time is coming.

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