#reiterating

Sander, 24, trans nonbinary, interested in everybody (mostly t4t), dom-leaning-switch, apparently really good at helping little sluts find themselves.

Minors DO NOT Interact.

DM's are only open with explicit permission (always open to mutuals).

Askbox is open to all, anon is on- don't fuck it up.

i like to be called: (incomplete list) sir, whore, slut, baby/other petnames, feel free to ask about anything else :)

I AM VERY INTO: hands/fingers, cum, body hair, dirty talk, cockwarming, voyeurism/ exhibitionism, power play, light cnc, pet names, oral fixation, marking/claiming/breeding, piss

I AM NOT INTO: vomit (THIS IS A HARD LIMIT), hardcore cnc, scat, age play, ownership, extreme bondage, piss drinking, diapers

AGAIN EMETO IS A HARD LIMIT!!! IT IS A PHOBIA I HAVE AND YOU WILL BE BLOCKED IF YOU FUCK WITH THIS BOUNDARY, DO NOT MENTION IT ON MY POSTS, DO NOT SEND ME ASKS ABOUT, ETC. YOU WILL RUIN MY DAY.

You will find tags I use in the tags of this post.

Keep reading for details about my turn-ons, I love oversharing. You should read it if you want me. It'll help you.

As far as you know, my name is Sander. Feel free to ask to call me something else. Some of my favorites.. sir, baby, cockslut, whore. You can ask about any of your favorites as well.

I'm 23 years old, trans non-binary, attracted to all genders, and stupid fucking horny.

I consider myself a switch, but am dominant way more often. I don't mind being challenged about that a little though... (bratty subs/switches, I am looking at you with adoration)

I love hyper-feminine things but I'm actually a bit more masculine presenting than I may come across. (maybe.. I don't know how people perceive me, damn.)

I'm only here to interact with other queer people, so please don't message me/interact if you aren't queer. If i can't tell from your blog, I will not respond. I'm a Walking Gender Mystery. So I'm probably not a straight person's cup of tea anyway.

DO NOT INTERACT if you are under 18. I likely wont follow unless you're 20 or older, but you can of course follow and interact <3.

TRANSPHOBIA IS NOT TOLERATED. YOU DON'T "UNDERSTAND" TRANS PEOPLE? GET SMARTER!

I AM NOT INTO: vomit (THIS IS A HARD LIMIT), hardcore cnc, scat, age play, ownership, extreme bondage, piss drinking, diapers

I AM VERY INTO (major turn ons): hands/fingers, brats, cockwarming, dirty talk, voyeurism/ exhibitionism, power play, oral fixation, marking/claiming/breeding, terms of endearment, piss

other/minor turn-ons: lingerie, body hair, spit, light cnc, light bondage, monsterfucking

AGAIN EMETO IS A HARD LIMIT IT IS A PHOBIA I HAVE AND YOU WILL BE BLOCKED IF YOU FUCK WITH THIS BOUNDARY, DO NOT MESSAGE ME ABOUT IT, SEND ME ASKS ABOUT IT, ADD THINGS TO MY POSTS ABOUT IT, YOU WILL RUIN MY DAY.

Anyyywayyy... Feel free to send nsfw or sfw asks, but I would really prefer that you not message me out of nowhere. Also, some tags I am using will be in the tags of this post.

Keep reading for details about my turn-ons, I love oversharing. You should read it if you want me. It'll help you.

So many themes of colonialism and feminism, and its really quite remarkable that a white writer managed to portray post-colonial botswana in such a positive light.

It really does set up the trope of a black woman in many wonderful ways, that I hope are true since I have never intimately known one. One of which is the abhorring of the skinny stereotype, and seeing fat women as substantial in more than the physical sense. So many African men depicted are actively turned on by it and see it as a good sign, and there's a lot of imagery of skinny women as good-for-nothing which now we know is a generalisation but is so so comforting to see, because we only ever see the opposite generalisation that fat women aren't sexy and are generally unattractive. Even if the fatness is seen as better for childbearing. I just love a fat protagonist whose dress size isn't always available, whose friends clothes don't always fit her, and who is maybe fetishized by her partners.

Also love the sense of community, and the awareness that it can be exploited by bad people.

The distrust yet tolerance of white colonizers.

the looking down on apartheid in south africa.