She can only keep pressing a man to be a father, the lack of being there for more than a second, a minute, being grown to handle your business and not let pain become a cycle of turbulence to endure, he has to shake up his life become the fixture his child or children need him to be, to many lost fathers, or drop bys, or broken promises made to reattach and break again, no seed deserves unwanted punishment for lacking to be mature, face yourself and reflect what they see, a child needs love, a child wants a bond to be instilled for life, embrace their identity, their character, be the idol for them. No time is harder than missed time of the past, why let a river of tears continue to flow when can close the gap, fathers be more than money coming in, new clothes dropped, time and appreciation for who they are will mold their minds more powerful than jordans, food, or the movies ever will... #fathersbethere #embraceyourkids #contact #reflectionofyou #actionsoverconsequence