My kitties had a terrible fight tonight. It was my fault, I accidentally stepped on my boy cat’s tail and his yowl startled my girl cat who was just a foot away from him. She went for him and he got so scared he hopped onto a dining chair trying to hide under the table and growled deep defensive growls. I shooed my girl cat away and into my bedroom - she was staring him down - and then did kitty checks. Both are okay physically, my boy cat seemed a little sore when I checked his tail, my girl kitty was agitated. What makes me sad and scared is the split second change from peace to chaos. We were about to have our tv time on the sofa together. My kitties are siblings, almost 9 years old and we’ve had them since they were 8 weeks old. Last summer due to both cats having health issues— pancreatitis for my girlie and an emergency surgery for my boy, they got into a terrible fight that had been building up due to food aggression - we always fed them next to each other and unbeknownst to us this stressed our girl cat because she eats slow and the boy kitty ate faster - he’s just bigger, orange tabby, and would move over to her plate when he was done. So she was hungry or stressed out all the time when eating and at times ate too fast and then would throw up. But when our tabby came back from surgery she did not recognize his scent and she hissed at him for days. Soon after we went away on a short trip and while they were fine with our kitty sitter, they had a horrible fight that drew blood on the last day. Our big kitty was terrified of our girl kitty and we had to start separating them. Reunification did not work the first times we tried so we installed a 6 foot gate in our hallway and these bonded siblings lived separate lives for almost six months before they decided to be friends again. We were all miserable. Seeing them fight again exactly like they did last year made me so sad and I am truly so scared that this fight that was caused by me will undo all the peace we’ve had since last fall. Please send all the good healing vibes to our little cats who we love so much. I am keeping them separated for the night. Please let them be okay in the morning.














