John/Charles for the ship thing PLEASE!!
Who is more likely to fall asleep on the couch
Charles, he works damn hard and the minute he sits down, he's away
who makes meals and who is more likely to hoard take-out menus
Charles knows his way around the kitchen and enjoys cooking.
While John can cook basic dishes, he just prefers his food placed in front of him.
Charles, I see him being a bit more open with his affections
favorite non-sexual activity
Just doing jobs around camp/ranch together. (They just enjoy spending time together, they don't have to be doing anything in particular)
who leaves notes for the other to find
Not often but John will leave little notes about, Charles is always making small gifts though
who crosses the street to pet a cute dog
Neither - John's a little wary of strange dogs, where as Charles will only pet it if it approachs him first
who takes notes on the other’s favorite foods and makes sure the fridge is stocked
who initiates sex most of the time
John is horny 24/7 though Charles is not afraid to ask if wants something
who apologizes first after a fight
Charles (even when it's most probably John's fault, he knows he's just too stubborn to back down)
Both are quite protective of each other
who says “I love you” first
Charles (it takes John longer to say it - but he does eventually )