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i have a question about shifting and im really not sure what to do about it. i would appreciate any answer at all :)

what should i do if shifting is sort of an escape? ive been told to focus on this reality but i have a hard time doing that because everything i do here is just a means to an end, because frankly, i dont want to live in a reality like this. basically everything i do here, i just do so that i can shift. on one hand ive been told (and i agree) that its a bad mindset to have, but i just cant look at this world and find any reason to want to stay here for longer than i have to. i fear that my desperation to shift is holding me back, but i do not see myself being able to accept staying in this reality any longer.

again, i appreciate any answer or advice at all <3

hi anon!!! you're so lovely, and i'm so so sorry this reply took me a month!! but hopefully it could still be helpful <333

seeing shifting as an escape isn't necessarily the problem. the root of it is thinking there's an escape at all.

you cannot escape reality because it's who you are. you cannot escape yourself.

when i say "yourself", i'm not talking about you with your name and life and experiences, etc. i'm talking about your true identity, which is always always unchanging, as source, god, that undefinable something.

when you say "everything here is just a means to an end" and you "just can't look at this world and find any reason to want to stay here" i'm going to ask you to think about that feeling you say is yours and think about those thoughts instead of just accepting them as true. because trust me, i've been there, but that feeling is not truth.

shifting is just an expression of you, it's ultimately just an experience like this one. and it happens within you, just like this "reality" and experience. you might be struggling to shift because you don't see yourself as the whole, complete, center from which experiences arise, and instead are viewing yourself as something lost and broken, needing to exist somewhere else in order to be whole and happy.

from my own experience, trying and trying while feeling this way does nothing except keep you feeling this way while nothing seems to change. i'd say, instead of accepting the feeling of "i need to get out of here" as your truth, try to slow down, zoom out, notice what you actually are. you're not one little person trying to escape reality. you're completely blank right now in this moment, the container in which everything appears. so you're not burdened by a past of "shifting is escape and i don't know what to do" or "i'm stuck somewhere i don't want to be", etc. because those are not and never have been what you actually are.

you don't need to escape, and you never can, because you are everything. what you want is actually to step into MORE of yourself, because that is what shifting is. it's you playing with the limitlessness and nothingness of what you actually are. it's not escape, but just existing. so instead of focusing so much on "i need to get out of here", think about "i get to experience something else", from a place of abundance, not lack.

because truthfully, there is nothing wrong with where you are now. when you see yourself or your life or things happening around you that feel imperfect, also see how none of that is really anything. no identity or experience can define you because who you are is beyond definition and beyond any single appearance.

i love you so much and i hope this could help!!

Could you please give me an example of how to do this? Let's say I'm hearing a noise (that's being conscious, right?) and if so, how do I become aware that I'm conscious of it?

hi!! so it's not an action. there's no "doing", so asking "how to do this" has no answer!!

so in your example, if you're hearing a noise (yes, that's being conscious, because absolutely everything you experience = conscious), you become aware of it because you hear it. that's it. being "aware" is what you're doing the second you hear it and notice it in your frame of experience.

you are conscious of it because if you weren't, it wouldn't appear. it just appeared in the empty container of YOU, in which everything appears in.

realization is not a process or massive task, it's incredibly mundane. it's just seeing that what IS is what IS. there's no secret or key or hidden perspective unlocked somewhere deep down in some realization or sudden awareness. it's just seeing that right now is empty on its own. you, the "you" that has a name and life and anything observable, is unreal. there is no you that anything is ever happening to, no you that is ever doing anything. if you can observe it, it cannot be the wholeness of the one observing.

so, when you notice something you're aware of, like a noise, and fully concentrate on that appearance, you just tune into one individual seeming expression of the you that you are unchangingly, undefined, unlabeled, aka god, source, whatever you call it. and the identity of "you" as some "ego" or "character" falls away for a moment because it was never the total-ness of you in the first place. it's just an appearance like everything else.

so becoming aware of being conscious is not a task. it's just a noticing. it's just seeing that actually, there's no more searching. you are searching for yourself. you are trying to do something you can't not do. it's just seeing that idea, which lets you "feel aware of being conscious". but even that sensation is imagined. even getting there doesn't truly mean anything because again, who you are is unchanging and undefinable, because it's just who you are.

so don't put any pressure on becoming "aware" or "enlightened" or anything . just notice.

edit: omg i forgot to sign off on this one but i love you so so much!!

love,

First of all, I want to say that maybe this is gonna be long but I need to talk with somebody right now.

I have been manifesting my desired body since March. Also, I have been trying to manifest my SP (they're 2 friends which I had a discussion and we end up our friendship in a terribly way).

Lately, I wanted to manifest my desired boyfriend and win the lottery (honestly, I'm manifesting a few things at the same time). At this point, I'm tired and I want to give up but I know that if I do it I won't get what I want.

My goal is get all I tried to manifest since march before summer ends.I know that I can do it and everything depends of myself and my mindset but doubts are torturing me!!

I have some questions:

Do you think it's possible I can manifest all of this before summer ends??

What advices can you give me??

It is possible to manifest all these things at the same time??

Do you think it's possible to manifest a boyfriend who looks like Lucas Bergvall?? (I have a little obsession with this football player so I want a boyfriend who looks like him)

Can I manifest an apology from my friends and a gift by them??

Believe me when I say that I had affirm, visualize, used tapping, listen to subliminals and try to change my mindset but I always end up looking for my desires on my 3D and IT SHOW ME THE FUCKING OPPOSITE.

SERIOUSLY I CAN'T WITH THIS SITUATION AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Should I keep affirming??

When I try to convince myself that I got it I have this voice in my head that says: "that's impossible" "you won't get it" or "you'll get the opposite".

I use law assumption since 5 years ago and I just manifested a few things (most of the things I wanted to manifest didn't happen because of my mindset).

I have no one who talk about manifesting or loa because most of people I know had tell me: "You need to be realistic" or "manifesting it's not real".

So, sorry if this is really long but I need an advice from someone who knows about this topic too.

Sorry for if I got any mistake (English it's not my matter language).

Thank you for took your time to read this.

Have a nice day!!

hi!!! firstly let me say, i completely understand how you feel and i know how frustrating and demotivating it can feel to be in this situation.

still, you just need to stop going back. that's literally all it is.

you wanting to manifest multiple things is not a problem. finding the right technique or method is not the problem. you're not doing anything wrong, you haven't been affirming visualizing etc wrong or not enough. it's just that you're still thinking there is a process, when there isn't.

manifestation comes from knowing the self. trusting yourself. knowing what you are. when you hear people around you saying that it's unrealistic or not real, you just need to stop imagining there is any weight in that. that's the first thing to notice, because if you're still doubting whether it's even possible, all the methods and techniques and time in the world will be futile since you don't even know why you're doing it really.

it's not like you're pressing a button (doing methods, techniques, affirming, visualizing, etc) in order to result in something popping up. you're not flipping a switch in order to turn on the light. do you see what i mean? manifesting is not about doing something and waiting for the desire to appear. it's just about being it NOW, because you know that you are already everything and nothing.

you, right now, are a complete blank slate. every appearance arises within you. i do NOT mean this in that you are "manifesting" the bad things to appear. i simply mean that there is nothing outside of you. but absolutely nothing that seems to appear is a reflection of who you are. because who you ultimately are is entirely unchanging. what you actually are is what everything actually is, pure unchanging source, god, awareness, something undefinable, whatever you want to call it. that is who you are no matter what.

so when we manifest, it's not about doing it from lack. it's play. it's realizing that the frame you see right now (opposite things appearing, stuck in lack, etc), is perfect as it exists. there is nothing wrong with this frame. there is nothing wrong with YOU for experiencing this frame. this frame says absolutely nothing about who you are. once you see that you do not lack anything ever, and you truly are limitless and whole and perfect right now, you "manifest" from a place of abundance instead of desperation and lack.

it's not about "is it possible to manifest this", because the answer will always be yes to that question, no matter what. it's not about "can i get these desires by this summer". you already have them!!! right now!!!

when you say things like "mostly things you wanted to manifest didn't happen because of your mindset", you place too much responsibility on yourself. you don't need to do anything. you don't need to have a perfect mindset. you just need to stop thinking there's anything wrong with you or what you're doing now.

my best advice is to drop all methods and techniques. drop all time limits. see who you are now, eternal and whole. truly see that you are not your thoughts or doubts or fears, you are the undefinable something, awareness, god, etc, observing all of them. observing everything appearing right now in this frame. from there, all you do is let yourself play in the illusion of yourself and put on a costume that you desire. "choose" the desired identity. the one who has the desired life, SPs, bf, money, etc. and then just let yourself BE that person. not trying to be, not hoping to be, not dependent on the 3d. just trust yourself when you say that's who you are now, because you know you are everything and so you can be whatever you choose to be when playing the game.

do it from a place of having already won, because you already have won everything. you're already everything. you don't reach for a desire from a place of lack, you don't do techniques in hope that it somehow falls into your 3d. you know who you are, and you trust that and let things unfold naturally. you just be, you already are everything.

i really really hope this could help, but feel free to dm me if you want to talk more!!

with so so so much love,

I wanna ask if i could actually manifest or any method to get a very very very specific person and by very i mean like i never ever met this guy, but i wrote pages on notion about every detail about his personality down to his small habits he does, and a bit of doubt is fogging my brain up, im trying to convince i can get him but how? If i were to manifest him how can i do that too? Its been a year since i have been waiting and i literally need him it hurts

first so sorry this took me a while to answer!!! i hope it could still be helpful.

so i hear you, i get how anxiety inducing this can be. but. this is going to be a bit tough-lovey sounding because all you really and truly need is to trust yourself!!

you're asking ME whether you can actually manifest this SP that you've written about. but will my answer suddenly make you believe it's possible? because, if you've seen any of my posts, you know i always have said that anything is possible. so of course that applies to you to, anything is possible.

the best advice i have for you is to stop searching for methods or validation of whether it's possible. clearly you want it to be possible, you've been "trying" for a year, you've spent a lot of time and energy thinking about this. so now, drop the "what if it's not possible". if you believe that it may not be possible, then quit trying. seriously.

doubt cannot "fog your brain up". doubt comes and passes. like clouds passing. it's not saying anything about who you are or what you believe. you do not have to get rid of it. and there's no "trying to convince" yourself. who are you trying to convince is possible? if YOU are trying to convince somebody, who is doing the convincing? who is being "convinced"? you're overcomplicating something that needs literally nothing from you except for you to relax and let go.

like think of it this way. if i told you to delete the pages of description you have in notion of this guy, would that make you feel anxious? you don't need to do that at all. but the point is to notice the discomfort. don't try to run away from it. see that some part of you is trying desperately to hold on to something out of fear. all you need to do is see that the fear is not who you are.

the identity of trying is not who you are. the identity you dream of that is with this guy is also not who you are. realize that who you actually are is empty, blank, everythingness. and from there, let the identity that arises exist without controlling it. you want this guy. you see that desire arise. now you just let yourself be the person where that's true by letting go of waiting for it to happen. you know you are everything and there's literally nothing you can ever lack. you do it from fun, from freedom, from knowing everything is you and anything is possible for you. you don't do it from lack and desperation. negative feelings and doubts might come up, but like i said, they are not your identity because who you are is and always will be and always has been unchanging.

you're free now. you're not stuck. you just need to zoom out and see that it's not about an action you do, or a method, or even whether or not it's possible. it's just about seeing who you are, knowing who you are, and then playing the game in the way that "you" "desire".

yes it's possible, but you don't need me to tell you that. you really and truly already have it. just SEE that you are everything. nothing is trapping you.

with so much love,

shifting and manifesting is so insane and beautiful no matter where you are. personally i feel like there’s way too many narratives saying you need to normalize it, take it off a pedestal etc, when that’s NEVER been a problem. BE excited. think about how ridiculous and insane it is and go for it anyway. if a manifestation or dr is bringing you more anxiety then excitement, think about why that is and make it fun because!! this is about YOU. you letting the identity that feels true be true. what feels true to you now? what makes you feel free?? and alive?? and expanded?? follow that feeling. that’s what will take you so so so far.

xx Priscilla ᢉ𐭩

but I have a question, how do people use intention to shift?

I don’t like shifting methods at all so I’ve been trying to use my intention so I can just wake up in my desired reality easily, but when I do that it doesn’t really work 🥹 I keep on waking up in my OR though I keep on saying that the 3d and my CR is an illusion

I’m just confused and kind of frustrated, I know the answer is already in me but I think I’m doing something wrong

hi anon!!! i'm so so happy you like my blog, so glad my posts are helping you <333 and i cannot say sorry enough for how long this took me to get to, but i'm sorry. hopefully it can still help!!

first, please please let yourself relax. you aren't doing anything wrong.

here is the absolute and ridiculously simple truth of what i think's happening. you're exhausting yourself trying to "force" an intention to work so you can escape your current reality. you're treating intention like a magic spell that you need to cast perfectly before you fall asleep, and then you wake up checking your room to see if it "worked."

do you see the trap? the second you check to see if it worked, you're operating from lack. you're playing the game in order to win, instead of realizing you already won.

okay, i was really trying to figure out how to explain it better, so this is how i've broken it down:

1. stop trying to convince yourself the 3D is an illusion

you don't need to frantically affirm or drill it into your head that your CR or the 3D is an illusion. it is an illusion. that will always be true anyway, whether you're awake in your DR, your CR, or a random dream. the physical world you see in front of your eyes is entirely irrelevant. it doesn't need to feel that way, it doesn't need to disappear. it has zero power over who you are. it's just a reflection, like a movie playing on a screen. you don't sit in a movie theater telling the screen to force the characters to change, trying to get the scene to change, you just let it and watch it happen.

2. intention is NOT an action

when people say "just use intention," sometimes we translate that into a chore. intention does not mean "i have to state my decision super hard and i have to hold it perfectly so that tomorrow i wake up and reality changes." intention is not a huge, enduring process we "do". it's not an action. it's literally just a recognition, a knowing and accepting. it's you looking at the infinite possibilities of yourself and saying, "okay, i think i'll experience this/that frame today."

3. you are the whole ocean, playing a game

zoom out. who you truly are is not this limited human body that is "stuck" in an old reality. your true identity is unchanged, immovable, limitless. you are pure awareness, source, god. every single reality, whether your cr or dr, they all arise inside of YOU, like waves in the ocean. you cannot be separate from your dr because it's the exact same awareness that you are always.

so how do you actually use intention from abundance instead of lack?

you stop "trying" to shift to get a better life. you look at your DR from the knowing that you already have everything, because you are everything. you let yourself "choose" that desired frame simply because you can, for the fun of it, knowing that choosing changes absolutely nothing about your true identity, but lets you have the illusion of change in your experience.

when you go to sleep, stop putting the pressure of changing reality on yourself. there's no "how," and there's nothing you need to achieve. just drop the idea that you don't have what you want. it's already done. you are already the winner. if you wake up and things haven't seemed to change, the panic and frustration that might arise are not you. because who you are is unchanging. in that case, you just trust your intention and simply be. life will naturally shift and reflect yourself, but don't put a time limit on it. not because it takes time, but because it doesn't, because time is part of the illusion anyway. worrying about it just keeps the illusion of "trying" alive, when really you're already done.

i hope this could help!!!

with so much love,

"stop worrying about time when manifesting/shifting" i say and you think what i’m saying is "be patient and wait forever if it takes that, ignore the time it takes" but what i'm actually saying is stop. worrying. about. time. it doesn't take time. time is not running out. i don't mean that in a motivational way, but in a ridiculously direct way of there's only now. there's only ever now.

time only feels so heavy and burdening and real because you keep feeding the thought that "it's taking too long". the second you stop looking at the clock to see whether it's worked yet, you pull yourself out of "lack" (unreal) and land right back in the only place you ever are anyway, the present moment. you just let yourself be right now, resting as the awareness that already has it all anyway. there's no waiting period. it's already done.

<333 Priscilla xx

I think my main question is: how can you assume you’re already in your DR while also assuming positive things for your CR at the same time?

From my understanding, manifesting through the Law of Assumption and shifting are fundamentally the same process; you assume something is already true, mentally aligning with the version of yourself who already has what you want, and eventually it reflects in the 3D. So when it comes to shifting, I understand that you must assume you’re already in your DR in order to experience it physically.

At the same time, though, I still want to manifest things within my CR, specifically career, relationship, and appearance changes. For those, I know the approach would normally be to assume that those desires are already mine now so they can materialize in my 3D reality.

What I’m struggling with is holding the assumption of being in an entirely different world (my DR) and that I have my desired body and job etc in this one (my CR). I’m completely stumped about how to hold both sets of assumptions simultaneously without them feeling contradictory - if I was in my DR, I wouldn’t care about my CR anymore and just focus on having fun, which I have no problem aligning with; but then how could I assume that things in my CR are also going well? Maybe i’m missing something?

My DR is essentially a solar-punk, utopian version of my CR where life is significantly better overall. But if I fully identify with already being in my DR, it almost feels like I’m neglecting or abandoning my CR manifestations (the main one being: assuming I already passed an important exam and now have a stable career because of it).

I know it’s possible to manifest multiple things at once, but mentally I’m having trouble reconciling these two states. How would you personally approach this?

hi anon!!! first i'm so sorry this took me a while to answer!! i hope it can still be useful <333

so, i completely get you. i've been here. but it just comes down to taking the pressure off of your human shoulders because omg, look at what you're trying to do.

manifestation is NOT us constructing reality from the ground up with our bare hands. it is NOT a huge, difficult, enduring process that we need to do perfectly. it's not about you holding an identity perfectly in order to get the life you desire.

it's about recognizing that you are not of the physical world. this physical experience is nothing, it's just another reflection of you. your identity does not lie in either the CR version of you that lacks, the CR version of you that lives the desired life, the DR version of you, whatever. your identity is and always will be unchanging, immovable, undefinable. pure awareness, source, god, being, whatever you want to call it. you are and always have been and always will be THAT.

zoom out. it's not about frantically holding one identity versus another. you cannot "neglect" an identity. you are EVERYTHING. every identity, idea, thought, equally. there's no such thing as "if i focus on one reality, i'm not being the other". i mean, there's not even such thing as lack. because, again, you are everything. if you don't hold something, who does? its only you.

think of it like you are the ocean. the realities or identities you desire that you say would have different thoughts and daily lives etc, those arise as waves. you cannot abandon a wave when you are the whole ocean. there's no separation, only seeming expressions of you.

think about the true expression of yourself you "desire" to experience. you want to be someone who shifts between these two lives seamlessly. that's it. that's the "identity" to "decide" you are. except it's not your true identity, it's just a costume you're choosing to wear, because your TRUE identity is unchanging and always will be, as god.

stop trying to rationalize something that just IS. stop "trying" entirely. just see that you've already won. you're already the winner, the creator, awareness, that undefinable thing. you play in the illusion of yourself for fun. you watch an identity appear, knowing that the appearance changes absolutely nothing about yourself, but absolutely everything about your experience of reality. you don't choose to get, you choose just because you can.

i love you so so much!!