Ever struggled to get Australian humour? Youâre not alone. When Mythical Books asked for a âplease explainâ, hereâs what I said.
When people from around the world think of Australia, they typically think of magnificent beaches, warm weather, broad accents, venomous spiders and snakes, the Great Barrier Reef, the Sydney Opera House and, if theyâre up to speed with current international politics, an embarrassing Prime Minister at the helm of a depressingly right wing government.
 Australia has all of these things, itâs true. But none of them captures the unique cultural essence that, in my view, is Australiaâs greatest charm. To understand Australiaâs real character, you have to understand the distinctive use of language and humour â and that was what I tried to showcase in Striking Out.
 Australians are the masters of understatement. A disastrous night out â a relationship break-up, followed by a trip to the emergency ward with food poisoning, and a long walk home in the pouring rain, for instance â might be later discussed like this:
âHow was your night out, mate?â
âOh. It was a bit ordinary.â A raise of the eyebrows and a knowing nod would convey the rest.
And the thing is, Australians would get the subtext and laugh. Australians use humour and understatement to deal with misery.
Australians also employ irony as part of their distinctive interactional style:
You can assume in this example that the person asking the question already knows how the story ended and is just trying to open the door to a conversation about it.
âHow was your night out, mate?â
Your average Australian might reply. âCouldnât have been better.â
Which means, of course, that it couldnât have been worse.
Again, everyone would laugh and then â once the laughter had cleared the air and relieved the awkwardness around the issue â a more meaningful conversation would follow.
If youâve ever been to Australia, youâll know that Australians swear quite a lot. In all but the most conservative Australian circles, thatâs not considered particularly offensive. Itâs a way of introducing colour and drama to a conversation. Sexual humour is very much the same. Australians like to stretch social boundaries. On the surface, this might appear vulgar, but it actually has pro-social dimensions. Itâs a way of reducing the tension around things that people donât feel they can say.
Hereâs an example of what I mean, taken from my novel, Striking Out. My heroine, Shazza, gets a phone call from a new friend, Jillian. The âelephant in the roomâ between them is that Jillianâs partner, Des, has been making a play for Shazza. Â (By the way, Shazzaâs name itself is representative of Australian humour. Sharon gets stuck with âShazzaâ, whether she likes it or not. The country is full of âBarryâsâ whoâve spent their lives being called Bazza. Warren becomes Wazza. Australian nicknames are often ridiculous and theyâre used to discourage people from taking themselves too seriously.) Hereâs how Shazza deals with the Des issue in my story, letting Jillian know that sheâs no threat. Jillian, by the way, has been having a very public affair with a guitarist.
 âI was woken by an incessant ringing soon after nine the next morning, having only fallen asleep some time after four. I felt tired and flat and murderously grumpy.
âWhat?â I shouted into the phone.
I heard a girly giggle. âWhoâs in a bad mood, then?â Jillian said. âDesperate for a shag, are we?â
I groaned. âThatâs your bag, Jillian. All I want is a good nightâs sleep.â
âThatâs where the shag comes in,â she said. âItâs relaxing.â
âThat depends on who you shag. And since I know youâve had a baby with Des, thatâs really too much information. Youâre making me feel sick.â
She giggled. âI could tell you some very interesting things about sex with Des.â
âThatâs what I mean,â I sat up in bed and propped my pillows behind me. âNot on an empty stomach.ââ
Shazza has used humour to convey her lack of interest in Des. And theyâve both used sexual humour to overcome the social awkwardness inherent in their situation.
There are hidden nuances in the way Australians use humour and bad language, and itâs this subtlety that captures Australiaâs real charm. If you happen to like great beaches and warm weather as well, all the better. Why donât you sample Australia (and Australian stories) for yourself? Youâll be in for an interesting ride and they just might win your heart.